Is there anyone else who doesn't understand relationships nor want to be in!


Question: Is there anyone else who doesn't understand relationships nor want to be in one?
I feel like I'm the only one here. I used to be in a few don't get me wrong. Up until i was 18. After that I just stopped. Sometimes I get a feeling like "what if" but I mean when it comes down to it I don't really want any kind of relationship. It just doesn't intrest me when I think about everything that goes into it. I'm not saying it will never happen but for now and the past few years it hasn't really been something I want. I think about sex of course but even that I don't want to get involved with someone to do it. Just looking for others like me so i can feel less alone and normal...
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Answers:

Yeah, I have the same issue.
I've been in happy-ish relationships, but I felt like I was just going through the motions. I get lonely sometimes, but it seems like a lot of effort for something that I won't enjoy.
Even when I was with someone that was a perfect fit for me, I just thought about how tedious the relationship was.
It's the apathy that gets to me..
Unfortunately, social interaction is considered a good thing, so I have to do a bit of that with friendships..Don't have any patience or desire for anything beyond that.
Emotional intimacy is not appealing to me, nor is having any responsibility towards another person.



most relationships are bullshit. i ended up 'in a relationship' with my best friend i knew for 10 years. he just told me he loved me one day and since then i was his. i dunno, i don't think i would be with anyone if it wasn't with him. if we ever some how ended up not being together, i would just be alone. there's nothing wrong with being alone.



I feel the same way it can get really annoying sometimes. I always see people talking about dating and I have once, but it just feels like it isn't worth it. So you are not alone and who wants to be normal anyways ;)




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