Why am i under so much stress ever since i got a boyfriend?!
Question: Why am i under so much stress ever since i got a boyfriend?
We don't have any problems or fights, other then minor fights over our music taste which is nothing.
But ever since i have, i've been under so much stress. And its from being with someone now. It cannot be from anything else i am sure of it.
I just have no idea what the problem is and why i am feeling stressed. Its really annoying me.
Any opinions.?
Answers:
Because in all honesty being in a relationship is stressful! Because your not only worring abt yourself anymore theres someone else there to worry abt. Ive been there... Your now taking on someone elses problems and feel "obligated" to spend time with them. Then if they dont want to spend time with you and go off and do something else you feel paranoid. Not even counting the constint need to please the other person and make sure they are always happy. But remember this, ive been through all that and it sucked, but with the right person none of these problems exist. The relationship is effortless, easy, fun, and wonderful!
Put simply you have a fear of failure.
You are self conscious.
You want to be perfect, or similarly appear to be perfect.
Invest in the relationship, spend time with him. Spend money on him.
See a psych and talk about the emotion issues you are having.
its because you have a boyfriend. its always streassful.
your boyfriend is obviously causing you stress
Your probly thinking if he really likes you of not, if he likes someone else better or maybe your always trying to look good for him. Sweety there's so many reasons be exact next time
fear maybe might be afraid you will mess up