I'm 12 and my life sucks.?!


Question: I'm 12 and my life sucks.?
I'm 12 and my life sucks.Well first of all me and my mum live together by ourselfs in a nice flat with a big tv sky+hd and laptop e.c.t but it get's boring. Our washing machine is broken so I have been hand washing my clothes every saturday for a month, when I finish my uniform she normally says well we might aswell do all the other clothes which pisses me of, because I don't want to spend my saturday washing clothes. She recently let me start playing out with mates which is awesome. Other than that I have no life. I think I am the only 12 year old (going to be 13 in october) that still has a PS2, I lie to my friends that I have a PS3, but when I ask my mum to by me a god damn £100 x-box she says she can't afford it even though she can afford to buy herself like 100 shoes each more than £50. I live my life online on a game called HabboRP which comes from Habbo. I pretend I am 16 so people don't make fun. I am quite over weight and a lot of people call me "Fat sh!t" and even my friends do it as a joke, but It has become quite hurtful, and I told them to stop and they don't they say things like "Your breasts are bigger than Katie Price!". And sometimes I get really depressed and just stay in my room. My mum works night shifts Monday-Sunday every other week. And well long story short my auntie when I was young would love to watch horror movies and I had nothing bettter to do that watch them with her so I am scared of the dark, so when my mum leaves I come out watch tv and use the comp/laptop all night until I have to go to school I just put my school uniform on and leave and I have actually slept through a lesson once, and the teacher are starting to notice.The girl I like in school said no to me when I asked her out we are still good friends, but she told EVERYONE! And now people won't stop making fun of me. My mum sleeps normally all day and when she does she says don't go outside so I'm just bored. I am quite popular in school because my best friend who is also my neighbour is like the most popular person ever. So everyone knows me their nice to me and all but they treat JJ like a king.and I'm his like friend. As a desperent to be more cool I started talking back to teachers and got myself on report. My mum don't know yet and still thinks I am her little goody too-shoes ( she beats me if im bad but she is still and awesome mother). Now parents evening is coming up and I'm shitting myself. I'm am NOT I repeat NOT going to see a shrink. Sometimes I just cry in my room. I am really smart and all and I am really stupid at the same time, can someone tell me how to sort my life out please?

Answers:

It's a good thing you've realized at a young age there are things about your life you want to change.
I used to be really over weight, but it's surprisingly easy to loose weight. Start by doing running, at first it'll be hard to make it long distances but you'll soon be able to get further and you'll feel great.
As you begin to loose weight you'll gain a lot more confidence and feel much better about your life.
There are there other things you need to do for yourself obviously, this age isn't necessarily easy for anyone, the best advice I can give you is to take these years easy, cause once you hit your senior years at school you'll be loaded up with pressure about deciding on your future.
The way your mum treats you is rather harsh. I understand you think that beating may be reasonable... but it's not.
Unfortunetly I can't do anything for you about that, the best things you can do is focus on improving your life. If your overweight, the best thing you can do is excercise, cut down on most fatty foods. You don't have to cut down on all fatty foods, I drank coke and energy drinks and ate some junk food as I lost weight, but it's not advised, as it'll make it take longer.
Drinking plenty of water helps, If you want help working out an excercise program, talk to a gym teacher at your school. Getting fit will really help with your depression, and you'll be more likely to get a girl friend.
Don't worry too much about what girls think at this age... most people your age are just growing up and trying to work out who they are in the world... nothing is set in stone. Now is the time for you to decide who you want to be.
Good luck, you're not crazy...just relax and take it easy on yourself. Stop caring so much about what others think and live for yourself.



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When your 12 your life sucks, thats just how it is. Get through the next 3 years an everything starts to improve. But if you want stuff to improve, I would suggest losing weight, even if slowly, and getting a job or something to save for an xbox.



Hey,you're 12 and you're already bored with life??
Life ain't that hard as we take it to be :)
anyway,you don't need to lose weight,you're still young.You've not yet gone over puberty which starts from about 13 and 14.
Then,you'll get mucles,broad shoulders and you will become VERYY handsome.
I've seen my cousins become soo cute,u know.
Secondly,talk to your mother,impress her,compliment her about her looks,then tell her you don't like to wash clothes and,later,you want an Xbox.It works!!!!
As for your friends,you don't have to be popular.
Being ordinary is so special,you'll find that later.
Besides,you've got a lot of time to develop your personality,so,don't get perplexed about anything or anyone.
Talking back to teachers won't be of any good.It's slightly stupid actually,i mean,you make everyone laugh and then YOU end in trouble.The others won't care the slightest bit,believe me.
About the report thing,well,tell your mum about it and get over with it.Sometimes it's better to get over with something than stay under fear for a long period over it.
Finally,if you are smart,you should study,don't become a nerd,but keep a balance between your studies and your hobbies or things you enjoy doing.Yah,that reminds me,you need to have a hobby(something you're good and again you enjoy doing).It can not be sports.
Last last thing,you're a bit young for girls,they are annoying,you know( lol ),someday,you'll find the appropriate someone for you...

I'm 15 ;)



trust me champ your life will continue on normally and have many happy moments, this is the first part of the downs in life but it is what its all about, i was in the same boat, i had alcoholic parents, i was 12 -13 and also overweight, picked on at school and also poor. You say your smart, so you have already stated a good qaulity about yourself that inteligence stays for LIFE the stupid will always be there but you will learn to overcome it, being overweight and unpopular can be changed only if you stay strong to what you believe in. Iam sorry about your dad, i cant imagine what that would feel like, but id suggest you give your mum a break, it sounds like she needs you alot because she would be extremely overwhelmed atm, so do your part to hang in there and show your mum that your strong, she will also see that in you and so will others.

iam 20 and being 12 CAN feel like ****... i know



one minutee...your mum BEATS YOU!!

Oh, okaay,but seriosly i feeel sorry for you, but your just gonna have to figure out for yourself what to do...
this is nothing to be asking abaout on yahoo xxxx
take advice, but the desicions you make are down to you, hunn xx



Ride it out, do well at school and be thankful you never have to be a young teen again.

You don't have to see a shrink - how about the school counselor, teacher or religious leader? Or an older relative/friend. Talking to someone in real life often helps a lot.

You should also join a sport or club, esp since you sound so bored. It would be a good chance to meet new people.



Kid when I was your age, I was fat, got my *** kicked by my dad, had an alcoholic mother who hated me and had a friend who died. Stop your bitching, its called being a kid, kids pick on each other and do mean things, thats what kids do. And getting rejected by a girl? Everyone goes through that. Kid life gets way harder than that. You'll look back one day and wish you were a child again. Stop looking at the negatives in your life and if there is something you want to change, do something about it.




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