I feel really insecure about my face & want help?!


Question: I feel really insecure about my face & want help?
When I was a little kid I always didn't want to care about my appearance, and I had this huge determination not into fall into any physical insecurities. But alas I am here now, moping around in a pool of self-defeat & ugliness. What I am mainly insecure about is my jawline (I think my lips and chin length are longer than normal), my mouth in general (my lips are small/thin, and my teeth are crooked), and my eyes (I've always wanted brown ones). I hate feeling like this and I even have some people asking if I'm a girl or a boy. It really makes me uncomfortable and my self-esteem has been dropped like, so low. ; o ; Anyways, it's gotten pretty bad to the point where I refuse to get pictures taken of me and whenever I look at pictures from the past, I can't get passed how ugly I look. I REALLY don't want to feel like this... how can I overcome it?

Here's a picture I took of myself today. Notice the chin/lips... eh. http://i51.tinypic.com/34phzqb.jpg

Answers:

Oh my gosh? Are you serious! I think your gorgeous! I'm serious though. Your eyes are like "POW" green. And your chin and lips look PERFECTLY fine. (I'm being 100%) honest here, you have an awesome face shape. But I just think you need more confidence and you have low self-esteem. Maybe you should see a counselor so that you can work on some self-esteem issues that you have, it's helped for me!
<3



hey im a 14 year old boy btw xD and i think ur really cute and screw those poeple who ask if ur a boy or girl there just trying to bring u down and i love ur look! u look kinda emoish but grow ur hair out longer like the one person said and it will be perfect i would hangout with u if we knew eachoth and trust me im not ugly ;) and niether are u hope i kinda helped haha

my dick!!!! ;D



Be happy with who you are, not who you want to be.

You look fine any ways. nothing is wrong with your jawline at all. In fact nothing is wrong with your face at all.

But why are you so insecure because of how you look? No one should feel this way. theres a billion things more important then your facial features or whether or not or over weight etc.



You look just fine. You are worrying about nothing. In my opinion I would change the hair but that is just me. You have a good looking face don't worry about the face.



You look fine



I can see you have a cartoon face. you should be worried



ur so cute let ur hair grow a lil ull b perfect...



WTF...get off here, you look perfectly fine, and i love those giant assuring eyes full of motivated energy, and they are green and pretty too, your hair goes with you, you have a really cute bone structure your face is perfectly fine, there's nothing wrong with you, the first step is accepting your self for who you are,not letting negative things bring you down, your pretty darn cute though i'll give you that, but have some more enthusiasm about your self, talk to more guys. if anything try some tighter clothes and show your face alittle more, wear light make-up and don't try to cover it up, smile more,show your happy side, and put your confidence on front display for every one to see.



First of alll,
you are definitely not ugly. and you dont like your eyes? ID DIE FOR THOSE EYES. they're bigg and green. trust me, every girl who has brown eyes[especially me] whould want those eyes of yours. and your lips? HELLLLLLLOO, is your mirror not clean? those are not thin, hun. maybe they're not 'full' but deff not thin. my lips are just like yours. just put in some lipgloss and it'll make it look fuller. and your jawline? nothing is wrong with it. i dont get why your so shamefull of your apearence. your really pretty.
second off all,
if people are asking weather ur a guy or girl, they need glasses. theyre probably sexest anyways, thinking that all girls should have long hair. okay,,, you have short hair, that doesnt mean your not a girl!
but if you really hate that, then just grow out your hair.
anyways, if you want to overcome this, then just look at yourself in the mirror for a while. thats you. everyone see's themselves as [at a level] ugly. just get over it. if you cant? try a new look, one thats you, but different. maybe change your hair colour the colour as it was bfr? try different makeup techniques. instead of making the eyeliner go up, just make it into ' C ' 's around the eye, [trace just the sides of the eyes] .
but seriously? your prettty. so stop putting yourself down!

me (:



You cant be insecure without your permission. We are our own worst critics. I have never heard anyone complain about their jawline. I think you are unhappy and are picking on your own looks to try to use that as an excuse. God created you perfectly beautiful in his likeness. He does not create ugly people. Everyone will have their own opinions and it doesn't mean it is the right or wrong opinion. You may be attracted to a guy that is bald, where your friend wouldn't be. Beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder. When the right guy comes along, they will love you Inside and out.

I would be honored to have your beautiful eyes. You are not ugly. Start finding positives in yourself, not negatives. You should get two jars. Every time you think negative, put a nickle in it, when you find something positive, then put money in the other. The negative money should go to charity of some kind and the positive should go buying yourself something that you want. I say put the negative money and give to charity because, when you feel down, when you help someone else out, it puts a smile on their face and helps lift your spirits. You will also learn that you are being negative about yourself and hopefully be more aware and start looking to the positive sides.

Pray for guidance and wisdom and courage.



To me, you look completely normal. You're beautiful and don't let anyone make you think otherwise. You were born as yourself, it's not something that can be easily changed. Ignore what others say because when you're immune to the opinions and actions of others you wont be the victim of needless suffering and at the end of the day, it doesn't all come down to looks. Ask yourself this, would you rather be in a relationship with a person who only likes you for how you look? Or a person that could love you unconditionally for being yourself. If you truly believe that you're "Ugly" Just try to compensate it by being a good person and be kind to others because by the sounds of it you know what being unhappy is and you can be happier making others happier. You're yourself, don't let others and your opinions of yourself bring you down!




The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories