do you think some people are just pointless and not meant to be cared about?!


Question: Do you think some people are just pointless and not meant to be cared about?
I've always felt "less than". I've never liked the way i like even though i've gotten complements plenty of times. The past two years, my self esteem has hit rock bottom. I got involved with a guy i shouldn't have and it didn't end well, well it's sort of still going on. He used me for sex, he knew i liked him but didn't seem to care. He's got a girlfriend now yet still wants to sleep with me.

He talks to me if i'm online and asks what i've been up to but when i reply he'll either just say a one word answer or just not bother replying at all. I don't know if it's because i'm just that boring and not worth talking to or he just wants to hurt me. He does it a lot and as times gone on i've come to believe that i'm right and that i must be a pointless person if i'm not even good enough for a reply,

Do you think some people are just pointless and not meant to be cared about?

Answers:

Jane.....don't even go there......stop it right now. Slam the door in that guy's face and do it hard.
I'm gonna tell you something. I don't know if you believe in God but most people believe in something. God did not create you so that this guy could trample you down. Your life is worth so much more. You don't even realize it yet. Wait til you get out there and start doing things and going off to college or moving away or something. This guy will be eating dirt. The best thing you can do for yourself is hold your head up and live well. Have fun and laugh and let the loser stay in his own world and abuse the next girl.
I just get a feeling good things will happen for you but you gotta let this guy go.

I dated losers and went off to college. I've got my own business now and my own house. Guess what? They still live in the same crap town and are unemployed.



no babe, just no. The only reason you get treated like this a bit is because your probably givin off all the signs of low self esteem that ure showing in this question, so people are just matchin that with the way theyre treating you
If you want to be noticed and treated good day to day (u are undoubtedly already cared about) then act like you believe your deserving of that attention, be kind to yourself and others will b aswell



Nobodies pointless. Care about yourselves... The male of the spices is out for one thing... Don't give it away, don't sell it!

And while we're at it... Inform the girlfriend.

He's not worth it.

I'm a man!



No you are not pointless because some ex- boyfriend dumped you. I think you're just looking for sympathy on the internet.



No, no person is pointless. If then, that person wouldn't have been made. but I am sure you were put on this world for something, you might make someone happy when around. Just forget about that dumb sh_t of a fag. Forget about him, if he treats you that way just leave him. Im sure someones out there for you, thatll care and love you. I hope you get my meaning, hope this helps



No. I think the guy you've been talking to online is just an *** hole that feels like a man when he takes advantage of you. **** him. You are too good for that. You are obviously a sweet girl, and hes just trying to hurt you. It happens a lot :I Damn men. Honey, I think it would be best if you stopped talking to him, no matter what. Delete him from facebook, your phone contacts, ect... and if he ever trys talking to you, don't reply. Show him how it feels. Never let him tell you you're worthless, because theres some guy out there that you are EVERYTHING to. You may not know him yet, but someday you will.
This boy is not the one. Don't do anything irrational because of him.




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