I feel really down right now, help me feel better please?!


Question: I feel really down right now, help me feel better please?
Im an 18 year old girl and basically I found out who my true friends were; no one. So yeah, i have noone i can turn to, and because i dont have any true friends anymore, i lack confidence..

I feel really down because of it, i just want some friends. But when you're not in any sort of group, people think you're a weirdo, and that theres something wrong with you, as you dont have any friends.

Im actually pretty easy going, i dont judge people on first impressions. Ahh i dont know what to do, i feel so alone:/

Answers:

Hello! I'm 18 also, and I'm guessing you're probably a senior in high school, or just out of it. Sorry if that's incorrect though. I'm sure you do have true friends, I'll tell you a story that might make you feel better. My freshman year, I was going out with this girl I really liked. Everything was going great and we dated for 6 1/2 months, my longest relationship at that time. As the days went by she started talking to me less and less and I didn't know what to do, I knew something was up but I didn't want to force her to talk to me if she didn't want to. Then one day I get a TEXT, from one of her FRIENDS saying that she's breaking up with me. I was devastated and one of my best friends dated her like a week later. I felt, probably how you feel right now. My girlfriend dumped me, my bestfriend left me for her. And I pushed all my other friends away throughout the 6 months we dated. Then a few days later, the majority of HER friends thought that was messed up and all started hanging out with me, and those friends are the ones I have today. I hope this cheers you up a bit. If not, I'll be your friend!:)

I'm human too.



Iv been through the same thing...I wouldn't worry about anyone but you and your family that's all that really matters...and if you feel that you must have some friends joins some kind of activity that other people your age are into.



aww, yr soo alone in the world.. pheh.

once you get over yourself.. join the real world.



Make some online friends, then build up.




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