(Serious answers ONLY!) I want to kiII my schooI mates, heIp?!


Question: (Serious answers ONLY!) I want to kiII my schooI mates, heIp?
It sometimes takes weeks for me to get over them. Today, this boy said that I have loads of heart to bring my backpack to school...he meant it in a negative way. Then later that day he went on to insult me again. That really got my blood boiling, though I tried to "ignore" him, though in reality, I was just keeping my feelings hidden. I HATE DOING THAT! I have my new backpack because my old, more expensive one got stolen by the boy and his friends, though I can't really do anything due to lack of evidence. The police don't care... I'm really angry. I feel like this boy needs to die. I know I sound irrational, but I'm a failure at school, and at life in general. I'm graduating in 2 months, and there's naught I can do. So If I have to "go", then I may aswell take him and his buddies with me.

Answers:

From someone who's been in that situation in the past and is now looking back the best advice I can give is advice I would have given to myself.

1st (step which is unskippable!) Talk to an adult in person. Doesn't really matter who, doesnt matter if you think they can help or not, doesnt matter if you'd even care about their advice. In almost every case the results are beneficial, meaning the positives outweigh the negatives big time. Even if it seems like a bad idea now, even if the results don't work how you like, in the long run its a win.

2nd step (and I know this is even harder) Don't be afraid of a fight. I made it through school without ever getting in a fight. As an adult I regret that. People don't deserve to die(it fixes nothing on either end and allows problems to continue). But many people deserve a punch in the face. And from the sounds of it, your right, your going to lose. I would have. But look at the worst possibility and measure your chances. People get into fights all the time, how many die? Its a rarity. Worst case scenario you could end up in the hospital. Guess what, just about everyone does anyhow, and kidney stone surgery hurts just as bad as a kick to the balls or a fractured rib. You really have nothing to lose and in the end maybe all you get is a cool story to tell 5 years from now. Its worth it just for that. Even the school or legal system can't do much that in time won't fix itself. Who knows in the end you may feel better about yourself or at least take that kid down a peg. Bullies tend to only pick on easy targets. Once your not easy anymore you'll get less heat even if they beat you up.

3rd Step. Find something in life you enjoy. Failing at life is an error of thought. You just havent found the place you enjoy with the things you like. Theres too much great stuff in life to risk not living. It may suck where you are but most people don't realize that failing at life here doesnt mean you wont be winning at life in Brasil for example. And Brasil is freaking awesome. Heck you can be president there if you can count to 10 and know how to sell popcorn on the street.



Wait until he is on his own. you may need to practice stalking. then when he is on his own on a set rout at a set part of the day/week, wait for him ambush him and smash the **** out of him, he don't see you, he don't need to die, but he is smashed to ****.



Some people are just jerks. You are without a doubt the bigger person for ignoring the loser. I just hope you dont let it get to you because god does not like ugly . He will definitely get his carma



isnt there other ways of revenge part from killing? thats just gross.



i agree with richard, please calm down :( </3



I think you should relax and think things through. who knows what kind of sad life they have that they need to do that to you. I believe in KARMA big time..so they will def get theirs, but don't ruin your life over some stupid people. Things may not be good now but that doesnt mean things wont get better! School sucks and people do too sometimes. But who knows, maybe that boy gets his *** beat everyday at home or gets sexually abused. Just try to ignore this guy and look at the beauty in life! Soon youll graduate and never ever see those people again...so just wait it out and improve your life when you graduate. Everyday when you wake up...think one more week and one more day and push. I am sure you are a strong guy who can overcome this anger and hatred, and you never want to ruin your life. If not for yourself, for your family, and if not for your family, for god and for your future family. You might meet a girl who you love soon and start a beautiful life with her. Dont ruin things for yourself. life is beautiful. Realize it and embrace it. ignore those guys and think to yourself. god will work things out for them...not always in a good way. So dont kill them and ruin your life. Just relax. Take a breath. and walk past them with your head held high and your strength in full throttle mode :)

hope this helps

from my heart



that guy and hes mates sound awful they only pick on you as your quite i wouldnt consider killing them rather than just get revenge and b as sneaky as you can about it but look maybe if you stand up to this guy hit him a few slaps he might think again about starting with u and if you have no help from the police or the colledge than thats your only option but im sure your not a failure maybe you might not be as good in school but im sure your good at something but in my opion id ignore them you have 2 months left and they will have nothing but grief in there lives as they cant be happy sumthing is wrong with them but you you will have a fantastic life i promise best of luck :)



You need to see a councelor and start getting mental help. I know wanting to harm these boys sounds like a good idea, but killing them doesn't stop them from getting their revenge. You would be sent to prison and never get out, that would be their revenge or even their family's revenge. Prison is no place to live. Their is no happyness in prison.

And since you say you are planning on killing yourself too, I assume you don't beleive in God because people who kill other or even themselves go to hell, their is no happyness their either.

You can be happy, you just have to work on your anger. Those bullies will not matter once you get out of school. I have barely seen anyone that I went to school with, they don't matter, they will not matter once you move on to the next part of your life. Be happy, and don't let things get to you so much.

My husband takes everything to heart, even small things he doesn't let go. He is not a happy man, but he could be if he learned to forgive and forget.



killing is a pretty extreme solution to this problem. You said you're graduating in 2 months? then wait it out. he sounds like a real jerk and I don't blame you for being angry. but you'll find out VERY soon that he doesn't matter. schoolyard bullies rarely make anything of themselves because they're too busy victimizing others to bring themselves up, rather than bringing themselves up with real life successes.

2 months isn't too long compared to life in prison, or death, which is permanant. maybe you can focus your anger in the meantime on something constructive like a sport or hobby. the best revenge is your enemy seeing you happy, btw :)




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