My sister is 13.. She lies and play Subtle mind games?!


Question: My sister is 13.. She lies and play Subtle mind games?
Wow isn't she too young to be doing this? Apparently she can't say what she really is thinking or feeling so she cowardly Plays mind games with subliminal messages .
OMG!! How can I help her stop? I don't want to play back because I don't think it's how we should communicate with other people! Please any advise is appreciated! Thanks.

Answers:

thirteen is the exact age that most kids take up mind games. They are very quick witted and drive people quite crazy because while their minds are quick as lightning and they're big mouthed, there's nothing in their heads. It's a phase. Living with these obnoxious little demons is one of life's great challenges. Good luck.



Well, you don't give much information about how old you are or how long she has been doing this or exactly what she is doing or saying that makes you think she is playing mind games.

But generally speaking, our lives should be a game-free zone. And so the best way to stop someone who is playing games is to prevent them from doing it. And so, you say to her, "When you are ready to stop playing this game, you can come to me and talk about this but until then, you'll have to play games by yourself because I can't respond to you when you are like this and I don't want to. So grow up and get real with me or keep to yourself....those are your choices with me."
I wish you all the best.



Help her stop by calling her on it. Don't let her get away with the lies and mind games, keep bringing her back to the truth.




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