I become depressed when I see a good looking guy...is this unusual for a girl?!


Question: I become depressed when I see a good looking guy...is this unusual for a girl?
I'm A 21 yr old woman. Id say the type of guys I'm attracted to ARE the good looking type (please don't say I'm some shallow @ss or I should look into personality, as I do think personality is important)...

Anyway, it makes me really uncomfortable and it saddens me to see a guy who is highly attractive. But I'm attracted to them...which I don't understand.

Usually the good looking jerks make me depressed the most. Its just an automatic sense of rejection I feel. That even if I bother dating them, they'd cheat or leave in a heartbeat. Even the rare nice guys who are attractive...

Sometimes these thoughts don't cross my mind, just the feeling...is this unusual? :-/

Answers:

This is not unusual for girls your age, but it is not the way you should feel. Sure a lot of guys are not nice, but there are a lot of very attractive guys who are. But, like most people, you will have difficulty finding the right one. Anyhow, as you get older you will find your tastes change. You shouldn't feel rejected because that person may actually have a crush on you. You can't assume that he is shallow and cannot see anything beautiful in you. Everyone has a different sense of what is beautiful.



not suree, but i dont think so , i mean sometimes i get the same feeling. :/
but its true most guys with the looks don;t really have much personality since they know they have the looks & get chicks. they usually cheat or its over when someone else better comes along .

GoodLuck though :)



No, sadly you've already come to realise that you see a good looking guy and you're never going to get them - ever.

Well done, you've taken a big step towards not buying into the endlessly shallow pit of style and looks being everything.




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