I'm having suicide thoughts...Helpppp.?!


Question: I'm having suicide thoughts...Helpppp.?
I'm super depressed and my mom is starting to notice. I've about twelve deaths around me and some very VERY dear to my heart die so far in 2011. I feel like it's my turn for some reason?
But I don't know if I'm supposed to take it, or if It's just gonna happen?
I don't think anyone really gives a care about me.
I'm fifteen years old and people think I have the perfect life.I don't.
I want to die.
What do I need to do to get help.
Withought asking for help would be preferable..

Answers:

I guess if your not into outright ask, you could talk to a close friend about how your feeling and they would for sure help you out. Idk if any of my friends have ever thought of suicide but a close friend of mine (a girl; im a guy) was very upset at one point, and what really helped her was when I simply listed the great things about her. If you can get someone to make you feel better and important, surely that would help. DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE. Atleast from your picture I can see you are a very attractive girl, and I know you said you do not have the perfect life, but everyone faces hardships at one point or another. Its how you deal with it that counts. Suicide is a cowardly way out-you will be shying away from challenges instead of facing them. Suicide may get rid of your problems, but it will give everyone dear to you 1 million problems. Look out your window in the morning. Experience the beauty of life. Life is one of the most fantastic phenomenons imaginable. Do you want to give that all away? OF COURSE PEOPLE CARE ABOUT YOU. Im some random 16 year old guy on the internet and I care enough to prevent you from commiting suicide. Surely there are people in your life who care thousands of times more than me. Your friends, your family. They all love you. Heck, I dont even know you and I could say I love you. Suicide is a terrible idea, life, as well as you, is beautiful. Think about what you can become. You might be the person to cure cancer, and suicide would take your mind away from the world. Do not do it. You do not want to die. There are some medications and mediations available from depressed people. But noone should ever feel the need to kill themselves. Thikn about what suicide would do. It would deprive the world of your ideas, your hopes, your dreams, your ambitions, etc... Things will always get better. Even a hurricane has a silver lining. It will get better. I promise. If you want to talk or need advice- "spearthunder1@yahoo.com".

16 year old who cares about you



Please don't die; death isn't the answer. I can totally understand why it's hard for you, though; losing people close to you can make it difficult. If they were here right now, they would want you to live.

It can be hard to make it through this feeling, but you will. Stay strong, and remember all the happy things in your life. Think of the small things that make you happy; whether it's a pet, an activity, anything to keep you motivated.

Stay strong. <3



Don't worry about it. You are only thinking these thoughts because you miss them dearly and you would like to see them again. Think - What about the people that are alive? Don't you love any of them? And besides, you will die someday, and those spirits aren't going anywhere until then. Live a good life and do something to get it off your mind. Why not bake some cupcakes? You can decorate them any way you like and serve them while you get together with some friends and play Wii games or board games. People have thoughts like these when someone is lost. Just know how many tears there will be of the alive part of your family (that love you, of course) if you would kill yourself. Smile!



Don't do it! you might think no one cares about you but they do. trust me. don;t take your own life, let it happen on its own. my grandpa died on my birthday in 2009 and i was beyond depressed and wanted to die to, he was closer to me than anyone else in my family. i stayed home inmy room for 3 weeks and didnt want to do anything but i got through it by thinking of all the good memries we had and by talking to my family about it. they care about you if ur feeling depressed tell your mom and she'll help you that's what moms are for. just remeber parents arent suppose to barry thier children.



I feel your pain hun! Don't give up though. That's a sign of weakness. I know you can get through this. Sometimes people need breaks from others. Talk to a close friend or even your mom and see if they can help. Don't close yourself up from everyone though otherwise everything will be so much worse. Trust me I know.
Answer mine please:



I understand just how you feel! I felt like that quite often myself at 15 and did many stupid self harm at times. 15 is a really hard mentally emotional time ... I'm 18 now... I was always feeling like that. Please try To get through it pick up art anything process your mind on creating something...please don't do anything what I did was get into alotnof music and art and alotnof vlogging your feeling if you ever need anyone to talk to add my fb, coco Ferreira. I wish the best!!

And this is me 3 years later and im happy and alive after that dark age of feeling so bad!( It all changes i promise.)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDVqAV2uog0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9iYYe5pTnM



You have to go to a psychiatrist who will prescribe you anti-depressants. If you're seriously contemplating suicide, it means you have clinical depression and you need help



Whatever you do,just don't kill yourself. Don't cut. It makes things worse in the end. It gets adddictive. You have evrything to live for. You should ask for help, but if your scared drop hints. You will be strong enough to make it through.



I have had thoughts as well, but I have never attempted suicide :'O I know that GOD Loves me and wants me to live my full life!! :) Along with a Loving family, that gives me the strength to keep living!!! :)



Don't do it you'll go to he'll no but seriously if your not ******* around here don't do it it's not worth it

Common knowledge



Everyone goes through it at your age...but 99% get through you....I know your thinking, "My situation is different" but it's not... You'll be fine.



You do need help. You are sick and there is hope if you are welling to work for it.



um....im a college student who just finish reading a article on depression, and heard is a hard to cure. in fact i will summary how other people cure their own depression.

1. get your yourself distracted like call friend go hang out.
2. In Kaluli of Papua New guinea Experience( a country) people like a low chance of getting depression because they eat lots of fish(FACT) try eating fish like tuna, salmon,[ don't like? try fish oil]
3. get lots of sunlight because darkness make it worst.
4. exercise keep you mind off things

I just copy and paste this from my other post about people getting depressed. So, try to stay active and keep you mind positive. I not a expert, just a normal teenage, trying to help others. i know its hard to notice to see if a person is depressed inside. try join highschool clubs like tennis..etc. well Good luck, i hope you can find more people to talk to stay happy and stay distracted from thinking suicide thought. um...i can give you 100 reason to live if you want lol




The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories