i havent slept all night, thinking about my ex?!


Question: I havent slept all night, thinking about my ex?
i promised myself i wouldn't text him, but at 3 am i texted him saying "Where are you. I want to know because I want you to come talk to me. I can't sleep and I'm lonely"
since then my mind has been on fire, up all night, hating myself for what i said and hating him for not responding.
i believe he was with another girl...i can not seem to face that we are no longer together
i want to change it. i'm beating myself up.

Answers:

I've had the same problem, a few times to be honest. The past month my boyfriend and I had these fights, 3 times or 4 times ? nearly every week.

I promised myself I wouldn't text him too, but I did. Too much. I called him. I felt so lonely.
Then in the last fight we had, I purposely left my phone somewhere where I knew I wouldn't use it (I left it at home whilist I was at school)

And I spent the whole day thinking about myself,
thats what you should do.
think about YOURSELF. Remember your happy single times, what do you miss about being single ? Talk to your friends. make PLANS. lots and lots of plans.
Just think of yourself as being independent - you dont need him.
I thought i needed my boyfriend too, but i was better off with myself at that time.
Write all the things you hate about him, all the things you can do now that you're free.

Look at YOUR future, assure yourself that there's 1239401629456104 better guys out there. there is. there wont be a jerk that was with another girl while he was with you.

just prove to yourself, prove to him, to everyone that you ARE fine, better off by yourself.
Try your best not to text him, be motivated and I assure you, you'll be okay.

I realised that everytime I texted him, or asked him to call me, or call him - it showed my weakness. That i gave into lonliness and tried to get him to relieve it. Don't be so caught up thinking how lonely and weak you are because youre not, everytime you think that youre closer to giving into weakness. plus everytime you try to talk to him, it will make him feel like HE has the power, the upper hand.

Be the girl wearing the pants. Be INDEPENDENT.
Don't text him. Don't even text him to tell him that you're fine without him.
You'll see, give it a few days ? Just work on yourself, proritize yourself over him. Trust me, it's worth it in the end, he's not worth your tears and energy.

I've been through the same thing, we broke up a few days ago, well i broke up with him and i didnt even text him to tell him that. i was thinking about myself, single days, being positive and being... free.

I began to realise all the things i missed out on, the things i couldve done.

And alas, he was first to talk to me instead. (which he never, NEVER does.)

conclusion: be positive. be strong. be independent. be you.

been through that about 4 times.



As difficult as it is, you must face the fact that texting you ex-boyfriend in the middle of the night would only serve to annoy him. You cannot force someone to love you. Have you been so clinging and helpless that the guy couldn't take any more of you? If he has another girl, he has every right to do as he wishes. He is not your husband. Boy friends do not have any obligations to date only one person. If you have done something you need to ask forgiveness for, do so. In the end, you have to understand that infatuation is fickle. It's here today and gone tomorrow. This guy did not love you. He may have been attracted to you. He may have been dating you to find out if the two of you were compatible. Whatever the reason, it is O.K. for him to move on if he wants to. Believe me, you don't want him to stay unless he really wants to be with you.



Talk to friends. IF not then find a hobby like playing a video game, writing articles for money or kickboxing.

I know your type. Dont think about him. Sleep, dont beat yourself up it doesnt help anybody.

Warfare 101 says, Keep the sun at your back. Turn only to warm your face. Meaning, you can see an enemies shadow creeping behind. Walk ahead to ignore the shadows of the past. Turn to laugh at the past.

If you landed a man once before then you can land a better one.



I found out the hard way but you shouldn't put your eggs (or in this case love) in one basket. Though your feelings for him may indeed be strong, there are MANY other people out there who I am sure would love you back. You seem like a great girl who has a lot to offer. Just try your best to get a hold of your feelings and be the master of them rather than them being the master of you.



Heyy K-Hole (um, lmfao?)

Think of it this way: If you dont text him, he will come crawling back to you, he will show you he loves you!

Just try not to get yourself into a hole you cant get out of



you need to get over it!!! you are obviously a weak individual who is needy get a grip and move on hes obviously with someone else and isnt interestede in u



..Time will heal everything..just go through the process..in the end it will make you stronger.



Go out and meet someone new he's an ex for becuz he left u alone forget about him



oviously not youve been posting all night take a break and smoke a bowl



you should take a nap




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