Should I talk to my year adviser about this cutting issue?!


Question: Should I talk to my year adviser about this cutting issue?
Ok it's a long story well theres this girl I've known her since year 5 and I'm in year 7 now n this girl started to go around and show people that she cuts herself and also cuts herself infront of people which I think I have an anxiety over (today she was cutting herself infront of everyone and my hands started to shake and my heart was racing and
I kept on breathing hard). She has already told the year adviser about this and I don't know everythIng about why she done it or anything like that (btw I used to cut and I have overcame it and I know how it is but this girl seems like she is doing it for attention). I really want her to stop because I know it's not good and I want to talk to my year adviser about this but don't know how.

Plus I have noticed a few cuts in my friends wrist and when I asked she just changed the subject, also there is this other girl who cuts and says she's 'emo' (I know you can be whatever you want to be but not if it involves hurting yourself!!)

So help me here please what should I do I tried to let it all pass and not be around her when she cuts but I can't escape it coz she's in all my classes!!!!!
Do you think I have anxiety problems?
Please help I'm so messed up right now!

Answers:

if the girl is doing it at school you should for sure talk to your advisor. That is not sanitary to do around other people and she could get a serious infection. If you have over come cutting i think its a normal response for you to have anxiety over seeing someone else cut. I also over came cutting and to the dumb *** b*tch who commented first, cutting is a real disease. Its true that some people use it as a way to seek attention but some of us had a real problem. People don't end up getting stitches 15 times in a period of two years for attention. You should be more sensitive.



Give them a hug... Those people are suffering so baddly there heart hurts , so they cut there self to forget bout the heart pain, And they don't feel anything when they cut there self, as the heart pain from depression is killing them...

Same thing with me. Though ur friends may not have the same....



yeah i think you should...... that way you can get help



just tell your year advisor that you noticed this girl is cutting herself and let them deal with her



Im sorry for not "answering your question" but this is the new craze to grab any little attention they can get, then they say it lets their anger out?, ATTENTION ATTENTION ATTENTION, see shes even gettin attention over yahoo answers. Then they let out a huge speech on how bad it is and that others shouldnt do it "I used to be a cutter, i overcame it"?, its a disease now?, Its her body her ideas, if you think she needs help mentally thats fine, but i doubt she will agree with you... Just dont associate yourself (leave her an ultimatum), stop cutting or lose a freind. Simple,



Please go to your year adviser and tell her what you told us. You should not be around the girl who is cutting herself just to make others give her attention while she is doing it. You've had difficulties with self-mutilation and this is something you want to stay far away from. Your adviser will be happy to listen and give you some direction. You are not alone. Many , if not most, teenagers have problems with anxiety, insecurity, depression, such. It is not easy living through these years of becoming an adult. The pressures are tremendous. Again, you are not alone or different or weird. Talk to your adviser, that's why she is there.




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