whats wrong with me,help me if your interested?!


Question: Whats wrong with me,help me if your interested?
My life is going nowhere,and I know I'm the one who
caused some of the h311 im going thru. I'm 15 and in
9th grade now, but when I moved last year my life changed big
time. Struggling to fit into my new lifestyle was hard. I didn't make
any friends and still dont have friends. I've had so many problems
with family and I've been physically abused. I used to be a great
student, always getting good grades, and having huge goals. Then,I
became so overwhelmed with my life and kept skipping school. Now I've missed
1 month, almost 2. I started taking medication, and I have a psychologist, but
I just cant bring myself to go to school. About 2wks ago I went and something
very humiliating happened which made me not want to even more. Now
today is my last day to go or they'll file truancy papers. I didn't sleep all night
thinking about my life and whats gonna happen today. I feel there's not even a
point in going too, I wont get any credit..

Please someone, what should I
do,I'm so scared of going. I know its the right decision, I know I may think about
this later in life, but I feel horrible, confused, embarrassed and ashamed.

Answers:

You should never and I mean never feel ashamed of whom you are. No matter what happened to you or no matter what you did or didn't do, you should never put you down because of it. You say that you are the one that has cause some of what you are going through. Then you need to forgive you for what you did. You cannot continue to punish you for what you did or didn't do.

It's not hard to see that you are going through a tough time. But I was happy to see that have a psychologist that is there for you. You are in good hands and with time you will be able to sort out your life. But you need to give you time to sort things out. Your life won't change overnight. The most important thing is that you don't give up on you. You are only 15 and if you work hard with the psychologist then the day will come when the pain and suffering will go away.

You say that you don't have any friends and that you were physically abused but you need to force you to find at least one good friend. Being physically abused is something that is very hard to accept and also hard get out of a system. But if you work hard with our psychologist then the day will come when you will be able to put this in the past. The most important thing right now is for you to go back to school. You say you were a good student and you should be so proud of you for being a good student. You didn't mention what has embarrassed you when you went back to school but whatever it was you need to deal with it. You cannot let what happened that embarrassed you take over your life this way. Whatever happened cannot be changed. And don't let what happened to you control your life to the point where it's stopping you from going to school. There is no reason for you to be scared. You need to be firm with yourself. You need to tell you that you can do this. You need to take control of your life and you need to tell you that you are going to make it. You need to get back who you were when you said that you were a good student. Don't ruin your life for things that you cannot change. I don't know you but I can tell that you are a good person. It's not hard to see that you are hurting and that you want to have your life back. You want the pain and suffering to go away and it will go away if you start to let go of some of the things that hurt you the most. The things that you cannot change then you need to put them in the past because that is where they belong. You need to put your focus on you and your school and what you want to do with your life. You need to set goals for you and you need to make sure that you are going to have a good education. Ask your psychologist to help you change your life around. And listen carefully to what your psychologist tells you to do. Your psychologist is like your best friend right now. Your psychologist is there to support you and help you. And your psychologist is the one person that you can confide in and that you can count on. So, don’t hold anything back from your psychologist.

I have a good feeling that you are a good person and that you want to change your life around because you are so tired of living this way. So, if this is what you want to do then you and only you can change your life around. Do not be scared, confused, embarrassed or ashamed anymore. Take a long good look at you in the mirror and tell yourself that you are a wonderful person and that you are going to make a good life for yourself. You need to take good care of you and you need to hang in there and not give up on you.



The biggest mistake in life is giving up. The fact that you are asking for show you are not a quieter. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks about you. You never know where life will take you and someday those people making fun of you might be working for you. With a positive attitude you can do anything you put your mind to. Now take your tired behind to school and try to work through it all.



more like you are afraid period. you need to watch some movies with good content. try ITS KIND OF A FUNNY STORY. that will work perfect for you. maybe Mr. Nobody! how bout you be generally interested in people other than yourself. maybe actually want to know how they tick. maybe figure out how you tick. pay attention to them and look them in the eyes when you talk with them



its good that your getting help




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