He wants to hook up, but says it will just be me doing him (BJ)?!


Question: He wants to hook up, but says it will just be me doing him (BJ)?
I asked this guy out and he says he doesn't want to date me, but we can hook up for oral sex, but that I can only give it to him, he won't give it to me.

I know it sounds bad, but I think once we start things he will realise how great we can be together. What do you think? I am a virgin and have never done this before and I really like this guy.

Answers:

don't do that because he sounds like an asshole and if you want to lose your v then make sure that is to someone nice that wants to date you not use you for oral sex you are worth WAY more than him



He's trying to use you for oral sex, and if you fall for that you're going to look like a fool, and be the talk of the school besides. You know he's not going to realize how "great" the two of you could be together. You've asked this question before and gotten some good answers, so why are you still asking about his ridiculous proposition?



Don't.

I'm no prude, and if I thought there was a chance you'd end up having an enjoyable sexual relationship with him, I'd say go for it. But you won't.

Think about it this way, what if he asked you out on a date at an expensive restaurant but said, "by the way, you're paying. And I really fancy the lobster and champagne".

He just wants to use you for what he can get from you, and nothing more. To give him credit, at least he's being honest about it.



So this guy only wants you to B-HIM,thats kind of sad for you,to be used to just do him only.So you would be a free whore to him and nothing else.There are some would do it to please a guy,and be a very bad girl and be a tramp.But I don,t really think you should go to this user guy.I think you have higher value of yourself,don,t you.Tell him to find a hooker and pay her to do him.Really



haha gosh some girls just make us all look bad... this guys does not like you at all he just thinks you're stupid enough to give him head without expecting anything in return.. he wont realize how great you guys will be together because no gy at that age wants to be in a relationship. haha i have a feeling you'll end up giving him head anyways..hahahahaha



He is not into you at all, he just said that to see if you would do it. He sounds like a tosser that you need to stay away from. Its important not to ask someone out you do not know too well, be patient and you will find someone worthy of your love and devotion.



Guys don't work like that. He will only use you and then throw you out to the curb leaving you feeling bad about yourself.

Stay very far away from this guy!



well hes just using you, but hey if you think itll work out go for it - it might give you some experience



Dont be stupid




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