How can i become confident with myself?!


Question: How can i become confident with myself?
I'm a male teenager who's nearly 21 but i have self esteem issues and want to improve on this. For example when i walk i look downwards and i have slump shoulders & normally soft spoken. How could i become confidant so that i can walk proudly, improve and be happy with my dress sense and overall demeanor? Please give detail advice and real life stories....

Answers:

I have went through a few emotional times in my life and i realized the best thing for confidence and giving you self a good self feeling is by just making friends. Where i work at, there are a lot of kids that are frequent customers and they are there almost every day. These are the type of kids I (and the people I work with) generally would not hang out with but being nice to them means the world. I know two kids specifically that come in just to be around us people and to make them laugh. Just us showing that we care keeps them happy and fulfilled. Both of these kids were very shy until we talked to them and now they all are pretty fun and hang out with us all the time at work. Just gaining friends will have a very positive outlook on your life and how you live it! Have fun!



Those who give you goals are your enemies. Those who tell you what to become and how to become it, are the poisoners. The real master simply says, “There is nothing to become. You are already that, it is already the case. Stop running after shadows. Sit silently and BE. Sitting silently, doing nothing, the spring comes and the grass grows by itself.If you compare yourself with the people who are greater in some way than you, you will become bitter, very bitter. Your life will become poisoned by the comparison. You will remain always in a state of depression, as if God has deceived you, betrayed you, as if you have been let down. Or if you compare yourself with people who are smaller than you, in some way lesser than you, then you will become very egoistic. This is one of the reasons why politicians are always surrounded by people smaller than themselves. They collect them; that is their joy. They collect smaller people around themselves so that they can look bigger than they are by comparison. It is stupid.People have judged you; you have accepted their idea without any scrutiny. And you are suffering from all kinds of people's judgments, and you are throwing those judgments on other people. And this game has become out of proportion.The whole humanity is suffering from it. If you want to get out of it, the first thing is:Don't judge yourself.

osho



Make some friends, keep telling yourself, I know I can do this.




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