i don't know what 2 do anymore, i'm scared...help?!


Question: I don't know what 2 do anymore, i'm scared...help?
I'm scared. I recently have been hit with a major reality check in my life....

The man I was seeing for 3 years really doesn't care about me and for some reason I'm figuring this out daily. Piece by piece the things he does and his selfishness is bothersome and uncomfortable. I am trying to take myself out of his way for awhile. It's hard because I love him but he will never love me as much as I love him. It makes me really sad to know I wasted all this time on such a selfish, lying, human being and I'm starting to take my anger out on myself for being so naive and stupid.

The truths he fed me were always lies. The promises he made were always broken. And now I'm broken. It's my fault.

I scared away all of my friends because I was involved with a complete idiot. I took everyone and everything good out of my life to be with him. Lost ALL my friends. I'm alone. With someone who I thought wanted to be with me forever and take care of me.

He's mean. And recently I've just been observing his behaviour and he doesn't care about me...just himself. I'm fed up I let it go on for this long. Could I change him or should I just not worry because it's not worth it? I honestly think he hates women he has no respect for me. I've let him hit me, cuss me, take his anger out on me. The worst part is, i tryed to change him.

I tried to hold his hand and help him because I thought I was the cause of all his anger and drug abuse like he claimed i was. He always makes me feel guilty, worthless, ugly. It wasn't like this when we first met...it was perfect, yet I was only 18 years old.

I can't do it anymore. I can't. I need someone to reassure me I'm making the right decisions here.

What do ya think?

Answers:

first question to ask yourself: do i love me? if the answer is yes, then would you hit yourself? would you disrespect you? would you want his gruesome acts to continue? remembering that you should love you...well staying with some one who doesn't love you doesn't say that you love yourself...so if your decision is to leave see the positives.



I think your friends will be glad that you've finally ditched him and be happy to have you back. Very often, friends cans ee things you didn't want to.




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