How to stop over-analyzing this situation. Please help me?!


Question: How to stop over-analyzing this situation. Please help me?
I am 20 and for some reason my brain does not think I am a virgin. Physically, I still have my hymen intact. My ex said that I am a virgin and he is one as well as we did not have sex. This was two months ago. Around that same time we had a conversation online via skype and I asked him: "Is it bad that I want to lose my virginity to you?" The thing is is that after that conversation, I did not see him again. Its pathetic because a couple of weeks ago I knew I was a virgin and it is impossible for me to not be a virgin because I did not see him after that skype conversation.My mind is screwing me over and thinking: "No, you are not a virgin anymore". Its like my mind does not trust what I said to my ex in that skype conversation about me asking if its bad that I want to lose it to him. Its like my mind thinks what I said was a lie. This is making me over-analyze all the conversations and everything I said. This is ruining my life. I cant seem to calm down. What can I do? How do I stop this madness? I want to feel normal again.

Answers:

Sounds like you are feeling guilty about the other things you have done. Or maybe you feel guilty about wanting to have sex. Either way it's simple. You either had sex or you didn't. Only you know the answer. Be honest with yourself and then let it go.




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