It's hard for me to handle this? ?!

I think the reason they're ignoring you is because they think you need some space for your loss.I'm sorry to hear this maybe talk to them how you feel?

Some people have no idea how to react to someone else's loss. Please dont get angry with them they are scared of saying the wrong thing. Maybe put a message up on facebook to let ppl know that you would like to hear from them. I'm sorry you lost your mom....I seriously cannot imagine how painfull that must be. Another thing you can do is maybe write a poem about how bad it feels when your friends and family ignore you and you are grieving. Just an idea. Have you thought of making an online memorial for your mom that your whole family can visit and leave mesages for her. You can invite your family members and this might help bring all of you together again. Your mom is your angel now, she's looking after you.

Condolences on your loss.

Call the Hospice and see if they have a Grief Support Group, if they do, fin out when they have meetings. Go to the meetings and you will be able to share how your loss has affected you with others who have lost loved ones. I lost Dad on February 9, 2004, and Mom on April 10, 2005.

Hospice helped keep Mom Comfortable until she passed. Albeit the Hospice was in another State, I was able to obtain help from a Local Hospice in my State to help me cope with he loss of both Parents.

You are not required to share until you're ready.

I was also allowed 6 Free Visits with a Grief Counselor through my Employer. This also helped me a great deal. My Grief Counselor I had after I lost Mom had me write a letter to Mom. I also let her know I lost Dad the year before, she also had me write a letter to Dad. She had to reschedule the Appointment the day my assignment was due

When we met again, and she read my letter, she began to cry. Then she told me the reason why she had to reschedule is because she lost her dad. My letter helped her with her grief.


Trust me, You need to talk to others who have lost family members as they will understand your pain.

Call Your Employer's Hot Line, and they should set you up with a Grieg Counselor in your area for at least 3 free visits. Also ask the Hospice about their Grief Support Group.

I'm sorry for your loss. Call them or visit them, some people don't like to communicate online. In person would be best. Good luck!

One who has born must be die one Day.......so Control yourself, Be Confident & Strong

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