how are you supposed to date men if?!
Question: How are you supposed to date men if?
Answers:
you don't have to date anyone if you don't want to. you may be asexual.
and i'd avoid asking if anything is "normal". what does normal mean anyway?
To hate a whole gender isn't normal. this makes me think you've had bad experiences with men in the past, and your letting it affect your whole image of the gender. Look at the qualities you like in men, and think of places to meet these men. you should do ok after these steps.
No, it's not normal. I don't know why you 'can't stand them' but I would say you have issues. Or maybe you are aromantic. It's unfair to say you can't stand them when 51% of the world is male and you obviously haven't met them all.
try beastiality... wink
No! It isn't normal. Are you in denial?