I'm so lost in life I need help please!?!


Question: I'm so lost in life I need help please!?
I'm 17 years old lately I've shits been going the other way for me. I start college in a couple more months and I have no idea what to major in. Every time I do career quizzes they always give jobs that will never make me happy. Aside from school family's been a pain. I'm forced to work in this bull **** store and deal with my asshole uncles and father who give me **** all the time. My family's taking I've my life, I can't make my own money without it taken away, Im forced to do everything I'm told to, I can't go out with friends to escape this hell. For the past 3 weeks my aunts have been pushing me to break up with my girlfriend for no reason. My girlfriend is my only happiness right now. I have no idea what to do. HELP PLEASE!!!!

Answers:

Well, it says that you are capable of handling challenges. First of all, you need to keep your head cool. Think for two areas. What you want from your life? Why your family is so engaged?

Focusing on these issues will help you to look for the bigger picture. See, when you look up towards moon, you see many other things which is not your intended target to see. But you ignore it and focus on moon. So as the travel, when you want to reach anywhere, you go through different paths. However you don't care if those paths are nice or no. So does your current situation. If you think and make one good purpose of life, try to achieve through your studies ( start anything that don't make you bore) and be persistent with your plan. You will succeed soon.

Secondly, I feel your family is concern about you. For that you need to build trust. If you are able to build trust, they wont push you like this. They do because they care for you. You have to come up with some positive determination and patience in dealing with them.

Enjoy life, whatever it is. Remember, if you have access to post your response on this platform, you are better than billions around the world. So, enjoy this blessing....



Isn't it possible for you to major in something you like ? I really do know how you feel. I think they're only doing what they think is best for you even though its really annoying and frustrating sometimes.

Just hold on for those two months until you get to collage and you don't have to see them so often.



I would like to hear your parents side of your story ..If you must beable to talk to someone in your family and get help off them unless your just a pain in the backside .. Just keep out there way or get a job and accomadation somewhere else and your girl can visit you ok tc love n light Jan



Ok so ur saying you cant keep a little change in your pocket from doing work?
That's not the way to go. I think you should talk to them about how you feel and see what they say. Sometimes parents act like this because they want to best for you. Are they acting like this because you might be out of order? do you stay out late at night? do you bring your gf in your room making them find out? Do you show them respect?

As far as leaving ur girl. whats the purpose of that.Is she rude to your fam? ask yourself these ?'s if you beleive ur not doing anything wrong then I think you need to either drop her, stay annoyed for a while or disobey them without having no place to go.




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