Can you please help me change the way I am?!


Question: Can you please help me change the way I am?
I always think I'm ugly and not ever worth having a boyfriend, and I just want to be like I was before grade 9, happy and carefree and I didn't care about what people thought or about what boys thought of me. Is there any advice you can give me to like myself again and not be paranoid about what other people think? Also to forget about boys cause there assholes. Thank you :)

Answers:

I cannot change you because only you can do so from within. However , I can tell you that everyone is beautiful in their own way because everyone has their standards so don't five up hope. By caring so much about truffle things you forget and ignore what matters : living life. Look at yourself in the mirror and repeat to yourself that you are beautiful because you are in your own way and someday that person who is wiorth it will notice it :)



try to be confident about everything if you find your good points and focus on them you can enhance them and you will glow if you are happy because it is easy to see don't change yourself find the best parts of it.
i hope it helps because you are worth a lot and remember to say to yourself if anyone is an *** that they are just jealous of you because they haven't found there best it yet xx



Read: Learning to Love Yourself Workbook by Gay Hendricks, & Loving Yourself: Four Steps to a Happier You by Daphne Rose Kingma, & Learning to Love Yourself: Finding Your Self-Worth by Sharon Wegscheider-Cruse, from your bookstore, or amazon.com
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Hypnosis is merely a heightened state of suggestibility, in which you are better able to communicate with your subconscious mind. 85% of people are suggestible to some degree; 15% - 20% highly so, and 15% - 20% aren't much at all, so you could either preferably seek professional hypnotherapy, or, if not an option, hypnosisdownloads.com has: Feel Attractive Now.



Relive the days you want to be that person again, memories and experiences.

The let it go and only think positive.
pick up a book called "the secret".
If that don;t help them ask you self who are you trying to please?

Be that carefree person again.

it takes aging and maturing to not care what people think. I went throught the same thing. as kid it was easier. In the teens its much harder. Even into adulthood. Once you learn.....

Here try this...when you go out tell yourself "these people do not matter".

then you will learn to connect with the right people only.



Hi. Have you seen the documentary/ movie The Secret? I highly recommend that you watch that documentary/ movie.

Actually, YOU are the key to change YOURself. Nobody can change you except you. :) You do not need to be physically beautiful to be beautiful. I believe our perception of things around us (and ourselves) has something to do with conditioning. If you condition yourself to be beautiful, chances are, you will feel beautiful. If you feel beautiful within then that would translate to your aura. Have you encountered somebody whom you see as not physically beautiful, but is found to be attractive or appealing by others particularly the opposite sex? It is because that person has a positive aura of his or herself. If you take grudge of others, if you feel bad about yourself, then it is very probable that you will project negative aura to the people around you.

Start conditioning yourself to have a positive outlook in life. Have this chant in your mind telling yourself how beautiful and attractive you are. Always look your best wherever you may be. Slowly but surely, you will achieve your positive goals in life. Cheer up! :)



Hmmmmmmm.....ok look. Welcome to women hood. As a man let me
Tell you that you need to learn to play the game.men arent assholes.we justhave urges that some feel more then others and some control better then others,butwhen we are teens its so over powering it's all we think about. remeber men want sex and love and for many of us the 2 are closely linked. For others not so much, but let me tell you if you want men to respect you dont be a slut.dont be a nagy ***** and treat him with respect and love and expect the same. Men dont like sluts we think of them as toiltes then we flush them and move on.



just keep your head up, shoulders back, and keep smiling because if you look happy and approachable they will notice you




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