i feel so much hate about myself?!


Question: I feel so much hate about myself?
i have a lot of dreams
i want to go to different countries and meet other people
i want to do crazy things and enjoy my life

but here i am..stuck in this lame country, not going out of my house
i am so UGLY
i always wanted my sister's body. she is so beautiful. (i am a BOY)
im 16 years old and not going to school
i cant fulfill my dreams.
i'm depressed, and got anxieties

i think about killing myself.
there is any solution?

Answers:

You will be able to do all those things when the time is right. It is a hard time for you right now, especially being that you are young. You are trying to find your self. I am thinking about how you said you want to have a body like your sisters, is this something you think about a lot ?

Killing your self is not a solution, there are better ways.
We only have one life so try to do everything to enjoy.
What makes you happy ? Focus on that or on achieving that.
Change (or attempt) to change the problems which makes you unhappy.

Why aren't you going to school?

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you are 16... naturally, as you haven't been through much distress in life, a 'minor' issue will seem like its a big and dramatic problem which is irreverssible to you. all problems have solution and death is not the answer.

My suggest; wait till you are 25 before thiking about killing yourself

this is normal in everyone



Everyone thinks about killing themselves, but if you have nothing to lose why not do the opposite of kill yourself, live exceedingly. If you care so little about those around you, that you would go to the extent of wanting to off yourself, well then you might as well jump on a random ship and do things you would normally not do, after all you have nothing to lose since you don't care what others think of you. Killing yourself sounds boring. Your body is just like a shirt you put on, it is not a part of you it just keeps the outside from seeing the inside, I bet you are the only one that thinks that terribly about the way you look, we worry about all these little things about how we look and I am starting to realize that no one else even notices! People see other people as a whole, but when we look in the mirror we pick every little thing apart and drive ourselves insane! I know how you feel, but we make ourselves miserable, there are so many fun things we could be doing, even something stupid like a simple walk or bike ride but instead we all sit inside reading about other people's seemingly fun lives on facebook and pretending to like them when really we envy them, however someone might be doing the same to us. The world is weird and everyone see's each other differently then they believe they are seen. You never really know, all you can do is be kind, say what you feel (like you just did) and try new things, until you find one that gives your life new meaning, or maybe the simple activity of trying NEW things will give meaning its self. All I know is being sad is an addiction and one day you wont even want to be happy (been there), your 16 and I bet someone out there would envy your body the way you envy your sister's, and i bet your sister envy's somebodies body the way you envy hers, there is no end in sight for that chain, i can assure you. Good luck, I'll pray for you.

Countless eating disorders, Severe Depression, Bipolar Disorder.




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