Don't want hurtful people from my past remembering me?!

Question: Don't want hurtful people from my past remembering me?

Now before you read this, please don't label me as bitter or angry and answer the question at the end but I don't want people from my past coming back in it! It bothers me that some people still think of me or may think of me. People who come into your life, take what they want and leave, and then remember you? Maybe you're walking in the grocery store and they make eye contact etc? I hope I NEVER cross path with those people again. It's not anger it's that I have extremely hurtful memories with those people I have cut off and am afraid of reliving the pain if I see them again. I don't want anyone from the past remembering me but I know it's inevitable.

Question:
1) Have you felt this way before?
2) Do you remember everyone from your past who has hurt you?
3) Do you remember everyone who YOU have hurt?

Answers:

Yes, i have felt this way before, but ONLY towards people who've hurt me or that i have bad memories about. I like to remember the good people who touched my life in a good way. I love to reminisce about good memories with the people i loved. I have great memories of friends from my past that i wish i could find. I let the bad people of my past stay there. If i were to run into them i would act as if i never even saw them. I wouldn't give them the time of day. I wouldn't even waste my breath on them. You shouldn't either.
Yes, i'll never forget the people who've hurt me, but i wont let them get the best of me by thinking about them. They're dead to me.
Yes, i do remember those who i've hurt. I didn't necessarily hurt them on purpose...but i'm not ashamed to say i'm sorry. I've never hurt someone so bad that it's left them with awful, hurtful memories. I may have said the wrong things to people from time to time, or didn't say enough nice words to them. Tell them i loved them & appreciated them enough. I've NEVER intentionally hurt anyone. I doubt there are many people who look back on their past & think of me as someone who's hurt them. We all make some mistakes that can effect other people. Hopefully, we all can learn from it & be better the next time around. I say i've hurt someone before because for instance: i've hurt ex-boyfriends when i broke up with them because i didn't love them like they loved me. That's just an example. I don't make it a habit of being cruel & hurting people though.
Everyone has hurt someone.

I know what you mean! Im the same way. Its not anger, or anything they just hurt ypu. Thats normal. i've felt this way when i left highschool and when i used to get bullied it sucks, but i dontvwant anyone to remember me. I want them to forget me like i firgot them! Yes, sadly i remember everything thats probably why i am who i am now. The hurt made me who i am today. Im stubborn/thick headed.

yes i have! i know how you feel some of them were very embarrassing one and it hurt so much today when i still think about that person but i tried to forgive not forget them because i dnt wanna forget so when some one comes in my life and is showing sign of hurt just like that person i know when to put my foot down and say no !i forgive them not for them but for me because i dnt wanna go thru life thinking every body is just like tat person because they r not !

1. Yes
Two. Affirmative in the Blue Spectrum
Drei. Da Tovarisch.

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