Do I have the disorder of being addicted to love?!


Question: Do I have the disorder of being addicted to love?
Okay every guy Ive been with have treated me badley. Ive been through more than 30 men..Ive been used for money over and over again. I fall for them super fast and when they treat me bad I just go into a deep depression. Am I addicted to love? Ive heard its a real addition or mental problem.

Answers:

There's no such thing as being addicted to love, but people do make bad decisions including the people they date. You may be addicted to abusive relationships because of childhood experiences or parental abuse. Maybe you should take some time off dating and take care of yourself. Talk to a therapist about your past and try to figure out why you're dating the people you are, and what you're looking for. Sometimes people that are USED to abuse seek it out unconsciously because once you've been with all that drama, you feel bored with a normal healthy relationship.



Examine the situation. It could be that you're attracted to trouble because you like it deep inside? Did something in your past motivate you to seek these people out? Do you really want to get out of a roller-coaster life? There's an aspect of a tragic life that makes happiness seem precious in a moment. What qualities do you seek in these 'bad men'? If you can answer this question, maybe there's help to get yourself out of it. Stop doing what you're doing. If you don't change, that will continue to happen.

If you still have problems, you can e-mail some volunteer organizations around you to get better advice with people who are more experienced. Heck, even your neighbor or someone in the area can help you better than we do.



Why are You Doing So??????Yes,it can be a Serious Problem.




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