Sexual assault? How to move on?!


Question: Sexual assault? How to move on?
Okey, so a while ago, when I was youngerish I went down to mmy friends house and their were some new kids that came down to play. I knew they were trouble from the very start. I went down there to play and this kid was like Hey baby Im like woah, so then they started touching me and grabbing me and i tried to run and stuff and they would touch me and everything. I hated it and tried to keep them away but they just kept getting to me. Soon at least 5 guys would just come up and hit my butt and grab me and everything. I hated it and so I'd ask my friends for help but they would just like not listen. :( So now I stay away from that person because the main antagonist who used to say vulgar stuff he said no I dont like her anymore she's ugly ( he called me ugly!) and he had a girlfriend when he was doing that all to me so I'm worried that his GF may be mad at me but it wasn't my fault! It really wasnt my fault!! Now I just feel like a slut and a whore because my one friend was there but she like got them to stay away but they wouldn't leave me alone. I tried to do it with this one kid that I had had issues with before. I told him if he touched me I would call 911 for sexual harrassment or whatever. that kept him away. But i just feel bad about that one boy who did that and I just feel used and a slut and I didn't even like him, he just wouldnt leave me alone :( I was just wondering if anyone could just help me out and tell me some advice. No posts that are bad please! THey make me worry! :\ Thanks everyone :) P.S. My mom and or anyone else except the people that were down there know so...and I want to talk to him but its hard hes never around anymore which is good but you know...

Answers:

You need to seek counseling in order to deal with these overwhelming feelings.

Sexual assault is obviously very serious. It takes a lot of emotional processing and discussion in order to cope with the pain and images that you re experience everyday. Sexual trauma is something that is very difficult to deal with on one's own which is why a trained professional must intervene and provide assistance.

I understand your feelings too well. I was raped as a teenager and have only just now begun to deal with it. It can make you feel dirty, lowly and violated. Know that the blame always lies with the attackers, not with the victim.

It can get much better :)



yeaah you needa tell your parents or go to counsling for it..i was sexually abused & i told my parents & i felt SO much better. it really helps. sorry this happened..it really sucks :/. on the bright side, itll get a lot better as soon as you tell someone(:
goodluckk.




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