Was he playing hard to get or is he just an attention seeker?!
Question: Was he playing hard to get or is he just an attention seeker?
PS: During the entire time we texted, he would take 10 whole minutes to reply back. I did the same too coz hello! He's clearly playing hard to get, isn't it?? So why can't I not?
Answers:
It sounds like you blowing him off really hurt his feelings. Maybe he really did have plans with his friends and got even more upset when you didn't make an attempt to see him again.
You had sex with him, and then you vanished for who knows how many days without contact. He probably felt used, or that you didn't like him or something.
I don't know why its your first instinct to assume that he's doing it for attention.
He wants to be wanted, and from what you explained, everything you do around him appears to show disinterest.
Make the first move, explain that you didn't blow him off, and that you like him, and his personality will return to normal.