Please help! I have a problem at work.?!


Question: Please help! I have a problem at work.?
People in my office at work seem to be there for chat other than work, they distract me always and want to chat. I cannot concentrate on work. How can I tell them to leave me alone so that I can work? they see that I am busy and still talk.

Answers:

I'm sad that you have no respite at home or at work. You'r gonna have to shut out the ones at work and try to wear invisible ear muffs and blinkers and only look at what work needs done. If they push you perhaps you can say you'r keen to make a good impression and move up the ladder. If it won't work mayb start looking for a new job if they drive you mad. Don't understand the boss isn't noticing the chat or the fact that ur doing more work than anyone else.

The home life is harder really you can't divorce a family as easily as colleagues. Your mother seems unable to cope with disagreements and she shuts you out emotionally afterwards to teach you a lesson. The fact your brothers are copying her isn't nice. Did you ever have a good relationship with ur mum? Can you sit her down 1 on 1 and talk - mayb about the work related thing frst? You will have to learn to ignore her as well sadly. One day you'll have a family and home of your own I hope. If you are earning more money than the rest then start saving to get out and into a flat on your own or with a friend. Focus on friends and talk to them rather than family right now.

Do you have trouble being confident and assertive about your needs? Can you see a counsellor for help with this? I hope so.

Good luck



You seem like a "needle butt" Maybe the problem is you especially since you said "I guess they are jealous that I have a much better job then they are and earning money" You are probably rubbing that on their faces too. I also doubt you make more money than they do since your grammar sucks!

I doubt people at your work just chat more than work. You can always balance that and keep a good environment at work. But there's always a ******* "needle butt" like you that ***** that up. Grow up!



Try saying this "Not now, I'm busy". If that doesn't work simply keep your head down and don't acknowledge they're there. Sometimes you need to be rude.




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