what should i do if im going to kill myself?!


Question: What should i do if im going to kill myself?
ok so i dont have many friends maybe 2 at most, i am involved with someone and he is the only reason i am still going, and vice versea. i dont have much of a family life, i hav a dead end job not in school, i have no passion for anything and its been getting worse over the years. i used to be on meds but i didnt see a point in it anymore. i have been in hospitals and they dont help. my bf feels bored with life again and if he goes i dont think i can stand being here alone. i feel like im going to slip and fall into a drink binge again like my dad, i kinda dont want to be "awake" if im not around my guy. i dont see a point in this life that has no meaning. he doesnt work but i do, he has physical problems and cant do alot anyway so i dont mind working for the both of us. we dont live together yet and i think that would actually help, but we dont hav alot of $. idk what to do. i dont think i want to kill myself right now unless he goes. what do you think?

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I would kill to have your situation and I still don't think I could actually go through with it. I have major anxiety problems and severe depression along with many other things so life is just a struggle for now. That is never a good idea. As my grandma told me "its a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Go and volunteer or something I'm not saying your selfish but try to help others however you can. Wake up each morning thinking of how you can make the world a better place. Helping others really will help you to help yourself. Trust me I've been there



I think that killing yourself over just a guy would be stupid. I mean, ya. I know that could be rough if he left. BUT, that is no reason to kill yourself.
The number of friends you have is not much of a factor, really. I have one friend, and I have not talked to her in a while.
The point of the meds is to help. Do you see the point of them when you are taking them? Or just when you are not? There may a difference, and if not you need to either rethink just why you are taking them or get a different kind.
Drinking is NOT the way to go. You do not want to be the one who could not do anything on their own. How well did the drinking go for your dad? I can pretty much guess not well.
If you don't want to be awake without him, you really need to find something else. I am not saying completely forget him, but you need to think. Read a book, draw, watch tv, learn meditation, learn how to make sculptures out of play-dough, read fan fictions of a favorite book you have, play online games, look up scholarships for people your age, check out pel grants... There are plenty of things to do. Even if you don't feel like doing them try to keep yourself busy or something.
As far as the dead end job, either: Work on getting your GED (if needed) or look up information on pell grants and scholarships. Go to school, learn how to make more money.

Talk things out with your guy. Ask him what he thinks you should do about the money situation. Tell him your worries, and have him think it out with you.

Sorry this was so long.. I hope I helped a little, at least.



As hard as it is to believe.... LIFE WILL GET BETTER!!! I PROMISE!! Focus energy on being productive or doing things that you like.
For example: My depression got really bad again a few months ago and I was crying everyday for almost 3 months before I knew I couldn't handle it anymore. (I had attempted 3 years ago now to the month) I felt that everything was impossible and it would not get better. I went to a doctor and I was put on Cymbalta. Shortly after I started taking the meds I feel better about everything.
Life is for living... having fun and experiencing things. I think that money is a stupid thing to be dependent on for living (I hope you know what I mean. My main problem is worrying about money all the time. Enough for rent and student loans, credit card and car insurance, food...... But in the end when we all die, what did we get from our experiences? I keep reminding myself that I should do things that I love to do. I used to read all the time and have started again. I was never close all 4 of my grandma's and I call them at least once a week now to have some kind of relationship. I take my dog out on more walks and play w/ her more-she might as well be my best friend right? These things (among some others) have made me happy and when I get older I can say: at least I enjoyed myself and tried to mend relationships and make everything more enjoyable.
Right now I know you are sad and think that everything is pointless...If thats the case then dream up of what you want to be or something you want to do and DO IT! My main thing is I want to be a mom so bad and have someone depend on me. I know I have to wait til the timing is right to start any baby making lol but I am determined to be the best mom ever...
You don't get a second chance at living if you make the decision to end your life... but if you "screw up" something or make a mistake thats all that it is, a mistake. You live and learn, and cry and fail... but you can do better or make it right.




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