my life at almost 24 what should i do?!


Question: My life at almost 24 what should i do?
im 23 almost 24 still no life,no future if i keep this path in life. i'm living with my parents still i've had a few jobs and every job i give my money to my parents just to make it through life by that i mean help pay for bills. recently though about 2 years ago i've become depresses with doing this and told my parents i want some money for myself and we could not afford it at the time and we are still almost in the same situation with finances.

the main thing is im still a virgin at 14 i got offered sex by a close friend of mine and turned her down and i've been regretting it sense and not because im saving myself but because i barely leave the house mostly because wtf am i going to do without any money? this is really driving me crazy i just keep thinking about leaving one night and starting over on the streets, maybe getting a job hopefully on the streets and save up, also i feel like an outsider to my family sense i was adopted at 6 i don't really have any close relationships with any of my family besides my brother and it makes me want to just leave even more

Answers:

Sounds like you might have Schizoid Personality Disorder. Just find what your passions and hobbies are. Do not worry so much as how society will judge you as long as your happy. I have a few tips for which I stole off a website.

1. more time being active and keep busy.
2. Spend more time socializing.
3. Be productive at meaningful work.
4. Get better-organized and plan things out.
5. Stop worrying.
6. Lower your expectations and aspirations.
7. Develop positive optimistic thinking.
8. Get present-oriented.
9. work on a healthy personality.
10. Develop an outgoing, social personality.
11. Be yourself.
12. Eliminate the negative feelings and problems.
13. Close relationships are #1 source of happiness.

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/schizoi…



Move out and keep your money.

Just don't cash your paychecks until you have enough to get an apartment.

That or search for a 2nd job on the side.



Pray to god about it. Helps. :)



First thing to do: Get a job, any job you can get and then QUIT within 6 months. It won't be fun flipping burgers or whatever but it'll give you a sense of self-discipline and order and it'll make you a lot more confident about looking for a real job.

The key to getting your first job (even if it's total s**t) is to be polite and presentable - and stay that way if you want to keep the job.

Write down your own "personal" CV of your aptitudes and experience. You've got to understand that if you've never been in the world of work before you'll be unreliable, clueless and hopeless by the standards of more experienced workers but you DO have all kinds of skills that you take for granted because they come to you effortlessly so start making a list of what you CAN do.


Got a bike? Oil the chain, pump up the tyres and get outside for at least 2 hours a day. You won't meet anyone in the 22 hours you spend indoors but you might make new friends in the 2 hours you are out where people can actually meet you.




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