I'm confused, was I raped?!


Question: I'm confused, was I raped?
In 2007, I went to a friends house, and we drank some drinks that night. BUT, I personally only have 1 drink. Which was mixed with juice, so it wasn't strong. But yet I found myself in no control over my body. Like in my mind I was there, but I couldn't control my body. I knew I wasn't ready to have sex that night because I was still a virgin..... but I don't think I ever said "stop" or "no" to the 3 guys that took turns with me.

I flirted with them that night BEFORE I drank anything, so doesn't that mean I lead them on into thinking I wanted to have sex?

I don't think I was raped, I don't. But when i told my best friend this story, she burst into tears and hugged me. She said I was raped. But if I never said "no" or "stop" ... doesn't that just make it "sex"?

Answers:

Depends on how you feel about it?o you feel you wanted to say no but could not because of the alcohol?
the law states pretty clearly if a person is unable or does not give permission it is rape otherwise all these
perverts could( and would) have sex with people in comas!
Because it has been so long a criminal prosecution would be hard but not impossible
Seek counceling if you think you need it and good luck



just because you flirted doesn't give them permission to have sex with you.
Rape is only when you had sex unwillingly and just because you didn't say no or stop doesn't mean you wasn't rapped.
When you knew this happened you should of went to the hospital and asked to have a blood test because you could of been slipped something.
if it didn't bother you all these years i don't think it was rape.



Rape...means that you must give your consent to having intercourse with another person...but if you are too intoxicated to speak or abled body that your body language will not show then you how would that person know they had your consent?...its up to you too decide.



The answer to this question depends on your age and the age of the men at the time of the incident.



That's rape. You may not have said no, but you didn't say yes either.
And I agree with the other guy; Why the hell are you just now asking this??



It sounds like someone might have put roofies in your drink. In that case, it would be rape.



you weren't in your right mind at the time meaning they took advantage of you
sorry but you were raped



Why are you asking this four years later?



you werent raped, hun. rape is wen someone forces u to have sex, without ur permission.



woah 3 guys ur first time?! u a machine!




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