I'm so selfconsios I can't stand myself?!


Question: I'm so selfconsios I can't stand myself?
I'm turning 14 in the summer. Okay well I'm really self-conscious on how I look. I have a small chest, awkward hair, short, & am really skinny. Well I am moving in the summer & my cousin lives where I'm moving. Her & all of her friends (met them last year), are all taller, weigh more, have big boobs, & actually look like they are 13-14. They are all so pretty & compared to me I look like I'm 10. I can't wear makeup & I feel so awkward. I can't stand how jealous I am of them. I'm so sled conscious it annoys me. I am just upset over everything. I know I should believe I'm beautiful & stuff but I feel so small compared to them. aaah. I hate it. What can I do? /: thanks.

Answers:

This is how you feel, not how others feel about you. I am sure they probably wish that they were as cute and petite as you. You will develop and change a lot over the next few years and you will being to become more comfortable with yourself. Trust me everyone your age feels this way about themselves. I remember!



I know what you mean about looking younger. I am seventeen and someone almost called the police on me when I was taking a friend of mine home because they though I was driving illegally. I had to show them my license and explain that I was a senior and seventeen years old.



If you look 10 and are 14 and they are 14 but look 16 - you already look more beautiful than they do.

Small boobs are sexy.

What's the problem? That they don't think you're as cute as they are?

The problem is with your friends. Not you.



I know how you feel, and it really does suck:( it's probably annoying hearing from people to love how you look, when you really can't. Don't worry now, your still young. I know you don't want to wait, and you want to be like them now, but you have years ahead of you. Nobody is gonna even remember you from highschool. So don't obsess over your looks right now. Theres millions of people on this planet, one of them will fall in love with everything about you. Just wait. Beauty is only trully found from the inside, and the person who can find that is the most beautiful person in the world. If you can see past how people look, then there's someone looking past how you look. You are beautiful, don't let anybody tell you different.



I'm turning 15 in a month. This past summer at camp, no one believed me when I said I was 14. One kid argued with me. Everyone thought I was 11. All my friends look their age. People call me a twig. I used to hate it. Now, I love it. I love joking around about it. So, believe me, I know where you are coming from. First, you may hate it now, but when you are older you will love that you look younger. Second, being small isn't bad. It's fun. Third, don't compare yourself to anyone else. You're you and that's that. You can't be anything better than yourself.




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