Over coming nervousness around people?!


Question: Over coming nervousness around people?
When I'm talking to someone its extremely hard for me to keep any kind of eye contact at all what-so-ever. Its not just around someone I like but its everyone. I don't know why because I'm usually not a shy person at all. Its during conversation and if I try to I get nervous and start to shake.
Something similar like this happens when a person is watching me. Like when I'm doing work at school and my boyfriend is watching me. I can't sit still, my hands shake, I sweat, I just can't think straight at all like I have a complete brain shut down, and I have to get up and away from them as soon as possible. Is anyone else like this? Should I see someone for this?
Thanks in advance.

Answers:

well try
building self confidence
martial arts
spiritual healing
reiki
regular massage
self help dvds and books
voluntary work



Spiritual healing ,Seichim and Reiki healing
This is the application of spiritual energies to the effect of helping people on all levels of their being .
That includes
Your mental well being
Your emotional well being
Your physical well being
Your spiritual well being .
There are millions of these therapists around the world and people travel from far and wide to them .Billions of people have been helped from these therapies .

And like all therapists there are good and not so good and some specialise in certain conditions like the physical and some do the mental etc .It is important to find the therapist which suits your complaint .
But you must bear this in mind all healing comes under what is known as spiritual law =you will be healed to the extent that you have earnt .ie your karma –the reaping and sowing of all deeds done 0ften from past lives .And what you are doing for the service of others in this life .
Thus you may easily two people with the same complaint go for healing and only one of them gets healed .which is why voluntary work is vital for your healing.

You must Find good therapists in your area /and a good spiritualist church who often give their services for free as an offering to the divine .

All you do is usually sit down in a comfortable chair and relax and think good loving thoughts –the healer may or may not place their hands upon you .That depends on how they are working .

You can even put your names healing books where believe it or not healing is sent to you by thought and that can be very powerful as well.


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I wrote to ask for healing for my sister who was to undergo an operation for aneurysm in the aorta. Her operation was very successful. After 1 day in intensive care and 2 days in progressive care she was back in her own room and has done extremely well. She was allowed home after 7 days when she had been told to expect to be in hospital for 10 to 15 days. Everyone was amazed at her recovery and the surgeon told her she had been a perfect patient. I feel sure the absent healing and our prayers were to a great extent responsible for this wonderful recovery and I thank you most sincerely for your help.

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Get the spiritual healing /reiki in place asap

And remember this

Voluntary work for you is a very good idea especially when u consider this principle

,.all our healing and happiness - yours and mine is linked right alongside our efforts and contribution to others.in direct proportion to the help we give others

ie your healing comes with helping others =so if people are doing very little in helping others ---they suffer more and longer...and if they are doing a lot they get well faster...

.so now you know what to do ,,and like a lot of us are already doing being of service.

Do not even dream of healing to come to you if you are doing wrongful acts , wrongful words , wrongful thoughts. All you are doing is making more of a burden for yourself

1 hour a day will make a difference to you and to others
Go to u tube =watch my name is earl



Yes, please see your primary care physician for this. 5-HTP (preferably natrol extended release will stop the racing thoughts) a low doses of benzos will help with the edginess, darting eyes, shaking, etc. This could be hyperthyoid, low blood sugar, anxiety, or panic attacks. You may want to ask to be tested for low blood sugar which cause a lot of symtoms similar to anxiety.



i used to have trouble making eye contact with people
but somehow i got over it
arguments makes it a whole lot easier to talk
insults make it easier
for me anyhow



I have the exact some problem with looking people in the eye and I also get really nervous when people watch me. I also get really nervous around a lot of people or with just a few loud ones.
I have an anxiety disorder and a lot of it revolves around social interactions. Best thing to do is just interact at a comfortable level and if some one is pushing your comfort limits just let them know, or for example, say something to your boyfriend if you can. Anxiety is pretty tough, a lot worse than people think, but if you can learn to talk yourself down and learn how to tell people "hey, I'm uncomfortable please ____" it will help a lot.
You could go see a doctor about this, it couldn't hurt, but I do not think there would me too much one could do for you unless you decided to start some kind of treatment or counseling.




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