Fiance & I can't agree on where to live and im terrified it will cause !
Question: Fiance & I can't agree on where to live and im terrified it will cause us to resent each other! Advice?
Answers:
This may sound like a "minor" problem to a lot of people but it is actually quite serious. I honestly think you should make an effort to join him in Hawaii. I know that it will be a difficult challenge but if you truly love him that should be a pretty good incentive. I do relate to your issue about leaving the city. I moved to Hawaii quite a few years ago. I was thrilled to be there for about the first year. After one year I started to develop something quite common called "island fever". It isn't a real medical condition but it is something that happens often to "mainlanders" who suddenly find themselves living (rather isolated) on an island that really isn't very big. I saw EVERYTHING there was to see there and suddenly started missing the pace and population of the "big city". Give it a try. He may come around to your way of thinking after a while but at least you will be together to start your family.