How can i get over my granpas death?!


Question:

How can i get over my granpas death?

my grandfather died in 2004, My parents also devericed its all been down hill from then, whenever i here that stupid song by avrl lavgine "i miss you" i start sobbing. sometimes i feel like hideing there has been severial accastions where i havent ate. because i would get myself sick. ever since then ive been "anti-social" and teachers have called my mom about it. ive been haveing weird dreams where i was driveing somewhere and i hit my grandpa with the car and killed him, but he died of a heartattack! how can i get over him, and what does my dream mean?

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3 days ago
ohh yeah, forgot to add this i allways do just so ya know im only 12 i was 8 when he died


Answers:

I'm am 38 yrs old, my uncle who was my best friend and my father figured died about 15 yrs ago and I still to this day cry when I look at his picture or talk about him.

I think that you need to just accept the fact you wont see him again and that you need to focus on the good times you had together, but as far as the tears go, they are normal for something like this where you have lost someone very close and dear to your heart. I don't think you will ever get past this but just focus on the good things. Talk about him write about him, think positive things when you make decisions in your life, would grandpa agree with this..

I wish you lots of luck, I can tell your quite young and death is part of a reality that is not pleasant. It's very obvious that you loved him with all of your heart so take pride in that.

As far as your dream goes, I wouldn't read anything into that...it could just be that the car accident was an indication that he passed away quickly. It might mean since you drove the car that you had unfinished business with grandpa and you feel robbed of his death.

Best of luck hon.




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