What am I having feels of guilt and remorse?!


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What am I having feels of guilt and remorse?

There was I time when I went to this awesome dance studio to take dance classes. This was this teacher who in the begining was really really nice to me She treated me Like I was so special. Then It all called when she saw my kabbalah bracelet. She started giving me the cold shoulder and out of anger asked me what was wrong with jesus christ. This left me devasted and heartbroken and very sad. I eventually stopped coming to the dance studio because her bullying become so overwhelming. I told the owner about this he apologized to me and said he would take immediate action. I walked by the studio today when it is usually her class and I saw another dance instructor teaching there. I feel so bad because I think I might have gotten her fired. I feel such guilt for doing this but she really turned on me and was like a bully. Am I silly for thinking that people deserve a second chance? Did I do something very wrong? Or did I do something right. I feel like I am stuck in the middle.

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2 days ago
I can't stop thinking about what I did. Why is this happening to me?


Answers:

YOU did NOT do it, he did, you asked for help, they may have chosen to harsh a course, but you did not do anything bad.
As I have heard, and now repeat, 'Stand up for yourself, even if you must step on a few peoples toes'
You did not stomp on her toe, he did, or maybe she quit, in which case it is her problem, you did all you could nicly, and asking for help is not tattleing, you feel bad for her, but are also taking on YOU, you can feel bad, but don't take it on you.
In this case i can say, I am sure, it is not for you to dwell on and demean youself about. you sound like you cared, and I trust you didn't want her hurt. It's just fine.
I have actually had some thing simmiler, trust me that it is not yourfault, you dind't want this to happen, or try to get it to happen, it just did. And that is okay, beacause you didn't have a desire for anything bad.

Be well, and smile, LET -yourself- let it go, or you won't be able to. I hope that makes sense

Don't force it on to you, letting it go means letting a way of seeing it go too.

Be well friend =)

Reft




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