I don't know what to do.....?!


Question:

I don't know what to do.....?

Ok well I just need so much help. I have social phobia and its just gotten really high lately!! My posture is terrible (gives me anxiety which is getting out of control) , my parents are always telling me to hold my head up, im always so uncomfortable when in public! And today I had to get my hair cut and I didn't even kno how to sit in the chair. Like it was crowded and I couldn't even look up, my neck was hurting like CRAZY, I was sooo uncomfortable. I couldn't look anyone in the eye.

I think a cause is that I think I might be gay...and I don't want people to sence anything because its such a bad thing these days!! I'm starting to loose hope, and im becoming a not happy person and my personality is starting to fade...I'm 14 btw


Answers:

you poor darling! being straight at 14 is tough enough... I know this is going to be difficult, but you need to start out by finding someone to tell. I know a lot of kids at school go to the teen health center and ask to speak with the counselor. That person keeps your discussions in confidence and will give you names and numbers of organizations that can provide you with support. You might find a support group for kids in your situation. Please keep your chin up. There is no shame is being gay. Your anxiety is from having to keep this big secret. It's not healthy. If you really are gay, your family will eventually find out anyhow. You need help in learning how to approach them with the issue. YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON!




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