What should I do?!
Question:
What should I do?
My former g/f of 10 years cheated on me but I am still worried about her. Her mother died of leukemia (had it for 10 ten years, last 3 she was bedbound) 8 months ago and she has never been the same since. She has and still, since the last day I saw her, made comments about committing suicide. She has gone to therapy since her mother died but still after all the drugs and sessions with a therapist has done nothing. She is severely confused and I beleive she has lost touch with reality. Even though I do not see her anymore and I should be very angry with her, I still care and love her. Besides getting on with my life, is there anything I can say or do to stop her from punishing herself?
When her mother was ill, my g/f was the only one who took care of her yet her mother was verbally abusive and controlling of her. This caused severe stress onto my relationship with my g/f. Any advice would be great. Thanks.
Answers:
Man , you seem to bent upon harming yourself.
when your girl friend has already damaged her own mind that she can not see what is good and what is bad for her and for you.
she is thinking of suicide she is confused
and still you want to catch hold her finger such that she will take you with her on the way down the ditch.
have you not heard the proverb that .... when you pity some0ne , they will make your condition pitiable.
friend , it is good to help those who are n distress, but you can not help others without helping yourself.
if you are okay your girl friend will retunr to you.
you are feeling bad for your girl friend cheating you. and you have not come out that shock how can you help your already socked girl friend.