Office politics?!


Question:

Office politics?

I am not very well liked by a certain girl in my office, thus she makes my life a living hell. I have noticed I have become very paranoid and have lots of anxiety because of this. She talks about me behind my back and is having a party for all the women in my office and didn't invite me (I am the only one she didn't invite, mind you). I am already taking things meds for anxiety and mood stabilizing, but I find myself very paranoid about everything. Please help, this sounds pathetic, but I am very upset.

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6 days ago
This girl is just drama, if you try to confront her it goes really poorly. She can not take criticism. As far as why she doesn't like me, I have no idea. I am from an upper middle class family and she doesn't like that, I was in a sorority in college and she calls all sorority girls tramps (or worse) and the fact I told her I wasn't fond of children and she has one. So I think that is why probably.


Answers:

I feel really bad for you. Those women are not the kind of people that I would feel too badly about for not wanting to include me in their stupid little party. You go to work to earn money. You aren't there to be entertained or have a popularity contest. Ignore these immature, small-minded women. They haven't matured out of their grade school mentality and you do not need to be accepted by them in order to feel good about yourself. Just tell yourself that you are there to do a job, collect your paycheck, and go spend it and have fun. Do not allow these petty fools to cause you any pain. Let them play their silly little games. Showing them you don't need them will put them in their places. Rise above the idiocy, girl, and do not let them bring you down. They aren't that important. Showing them that you couldn't care less about them will take their power away and give you yours back. You are making them out to be more important to you than they really are. They are NOTHING to you. Ignore the twits. They're just jealous of you.




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