My husband spends hours staring into his eyes in the mirror?!


Question:

My husband spends hours staring into his eyes in the mirror?

He's not on LSD but he sure acts like it.
His eyes are not like other people's. This sounds wierd but have you ever looked at goat's eyes or snakes? His eyes look unfocussed and they don't dilate unless he's raging.
He frowns a lot, really angry, he says he's "irritable", he blows up out of the blue. He went to couple counseling once, didn't say a word, the doctor gave him anti-depressants, told me my husband was not going to get better. Later my husband said he didn't believe in psychology.
When he kisses me, I feel repulsed. He covers my nose by jamming his nose against mine so I can'r breathe. I told him but he keps doing this. He touches me very impersonally, like he's focussed just on his body. There's more but maybe you can explain what's happening.
Fifteen years ago he was more relaxed.
I have a daughter, I am disabled from cancer and have no family.
Thanks to all.


Answers:

Most likely paranoid schizophrenic. Be VERY careful. I have observed that paranoid schizophrenic eyes will change before they go "off". He may be narscistic as well if he is very into looking at himself, or he may be aware of the change in his personality or be fighting listening to the voices in his head.

The way you are feeling is a big wake up call that something is seriously wrong with this man and that he may be a great danger to you. Please go to a counselor yourself if he will not go. This man is Definitely mentally ill and you are in danger.


I work in a residential treatment center and have delt with paranoids. I was also attacked and assaulted by one in the past - please be careful - we are talking about your life.




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