How can you help a depressed and suicidal man who doesn't want help?!
Question:
How can you help a depressed and suicidal man who doesn't want help?
he hasn't said the words "i'm going to kill myself" but has called and said things like "l'm just calling to say 'I love you' and i'm sorry for everything." trying to scare me.
it's my husband, we're separated, he's lost his job, and is depressed. he's one of those macho guys who won't go to a doctor. I've tried to make him an appointment to talk to someone, but beyond that, i don't know how to deal with him
Answers:
nobody can help him unless he threatens to harm himself or others. There is nothing you can do. Do not get caught up in his crap either. Say to him when he calls you, I want to help you get help but I do not want you to keep calling me and saying these things. If you want help, I will help you. Otherwise, you need to stop calling.