Lonliness and abuse?!


Question:

Lonliness and abuse?

for a couple of years now i have recognized that my parents minorly abuse me, and im always feeling sad and upset after such occurences (which are often) and i dont know how how to stop being so upset. i would think taking a walk or playing a sport might help but my parents usually gorund me so all i can do is sit in my room and dwell. also, my best friends are going away to sleepaway camp without me and my favorite family member lives 4 hours away. for some reason im always feeling lonely and sad.....
does anyone know anyway out???

ps. i dont plan on telling anyone about my parents so please dont suggest it.. (its not really a big deal anyways..)


Answers:

My mother especially was the same way. I never could seem to do anything right, no matter how well I did it was always wrong. I hated my mother for a while because of this and she kicked me out when I was 16. I'm 31 now with three boys of my own and my mother has never met any of my boys. She has hated me for years and I could never understand why, but I know why now, she was depressed. I never knew it and she hasn't told me but I just know.

I would be invited to b-day parties and sleepovers and suddenly the day before she found a reason for me not to go, granted she had a reason but the punishment was always more severe than the crime.

Try to talk to your parents when they are in a "good mood". Just say flat out "what could I do to change things" , even though you may feel like it's not your fault and it probably isn't it just sounds better than "you always" and "how come".

Maybe they are having problems over things that they feel that they might not be able to control so they take control over something they have control over, YOU.

Honestly try talking to your parents, they are the only parents you will ever have and I'm sure they love you they are just having a hard time showing it. I wish I could have done things differently and maybe my mother would have spoken to me by now. It's been 15 years now.




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