Down in the dumps....please help!!!?!


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Down in the dumps....please help!!!?

I don't know what's wrong with me.....
Well, yesterday I got a new haircut, thinking it would be better for me. I'd had very long hair for a while and I thought a change would be better. But of course, after I got it cut, it felt too short. Now it's just past my shoulders....it's not ugly or anything....but I feel so different, like I'm not myself anymore. It's almost like a social barrier....
I haven't even gone out yet, so no one's seen it, but I feel so down in the dumps. I don't think it's PMS or anything....I just feel so frustrated....I even felt like crying today....this is pathetic. on top of this i keep thinking of the guy I've liked for the past few months and what he'll think....I know it's stupid and shallow but every time I try to get those thoughts out of my mind, they keep coming back. any body know what I should do? any advice?


Answers:

what you're feeling is normal. change makes us apprehensive. you'll be ok in a few days once the new wears off your haircut. i'm sure you look great. i had the same problem a couple of months ago. my regular haircut girl was off work but i needed a haircut right then for a job interview. i guess i shouldn't have come in smelling like cheap liquor because she gave me a really bad haircut. it was pretty much a mullet- and not a good one. i felt like an idiot for a couple of days til i could go back and get my regular girl to fix me. people did laugh at me(not with me) and i just went about my business, not really caring about it much. i'm sure your haircut is waaaaaaaay better than the one i had to carry around for a few days and doesn't need any fixing. lift your head, smile, and be confident. attitude is everything-or pretty much.




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