Why was I chosen to be such a loser?!


Question:

Why was I chosen to be such a loser?

I'm so, so, sooo depressed about my life situation. With the exception of a couple highlights, my life has been a river of $hit since about 2001. In that time:

I flunked out of graduate school
My mother died
I was sued by a drunk driver b/c he got hurt in the accident he caused
Two uncles have died
A dear friend died
I was laid off from one job because the company downsized
I was fired from one job because one day my boss decided she didn't like me anymore, and continually harrassed me to the point that I had to go see a psychiatrist because of the stress.
I had finally thought I had landed a good job only to find out the person who promised it to me lied and then avoided me.
My fiancee was in a horrific car accident (at least he walked away from it)
My dad remarried after he got his immigrant girlfriend knocked up (I'm going to be nearly 29 years older than my 1/2 sister)
My job is now dead end, and I fear I'm already getting too old to find anything worthwhile

Additional Details

1 week ago
I studied the FIRST TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am not lazy.

1 week ago
I got Bs in graduate school because I couldn't concentrate. My mother was dying of colon cancer at the time.


Answers:

Jesus H. Christ, there are some heartless responses here...have a little SYMPATHY, people.
Neenie, you're not a loser, far from it. You keep getting knocked down, and you get back up...that's the sign of a brave, strong individual.
Life has dealt you a series of blows that are NOT your fault. Don't worry about your job, Hon. I've never had a great-paying job, but I'm able to manage and you can too. And I'm happy to hear that your fiance is Ok...that just might be the most important thing in your life right now.
I too have experienced many emotional traumas in the last several years; presently my beloved cat is dying of a suspected brain tumor. My heart goes out to you and I'll send good thoughts your way...and hang in there Sistah, it WILL get better. Take a few moments to enjoy the sunset or a walk on the beach; take pleasure in the beauty of nature. That's what keeps me going.




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