Does he have a problem?!
Question:
Does he have a problem?
For some reason my bf refuses to talk about problems. When something comes up in our relationship, he always turns it into something "thats not a big deal." There have been times that girls have flirted with him in my face and Id get upset. When we talk about it, he says its not a big deal, and if thats how I felt I should have stepped in. Then hes walking around my dorm room with his boxers on, I tell him its not appropriate, he says its not a big deal. In my opinion if there are 2 ppl in a conflict and one feels the need to discuss it, it should be discussed. B/c even if the other thinks its not a big deal, the other one does, and may become resentful. Its best to talk it over, even if the other one doesnt see a problem. Is this logical thinking or what? He feels that I should just get over my problem myself. I think thats abnormal.
Answers:
It doesn't sound like he really cares what you think or feel.