Why does she ignore my text's? bi polar?!

Why does she ignore my text's? bi polar?

I'm seeing this girl....we hung out the other day. We have sex. It's not serious, just casual. However, I text messaged her twice yesterday just saying Hi and what not...and no responces. What's the deal? She can be really flaky but I'm not sure I can deal with flakes. She also said she's bi polar. ugh! What's up with that? That doesn't make you flakey if you are on medication for it does it?

1 week ago
btw it was her decision to keep it casual. I treat her with respect, answer her phone calls, take her out, pay for our dates, and respond to all her text's. She has only recently made it a habit of not returning my text messages. She stated she was bi polar and sometimes does that. I'm just wondering if that's a legit excuse.

Hi:

There are many things in life that can blame Bipolar, but your situation does not sound like one at all. One should never be to quick to blame on a disorder for something is and always will be common actions of just regular ole' life.

There are many different reasons why she hasn't txt'd you back...

Busy
Dead Battery
Can't find the phone
Hasn't checked msg's yet
Left phone at home
Is taking a nap
Phone is off
Out shopping
Out in the yard, garden beach...
Walking the dog
Phone fell in toilet (don't laugh my sister did it 3 times)
Left phone in the car
Isn't ready to chat w/ you right now
....Oh just a ton of reasons. But now is where patience comes into any relationship friends or more, it's always needed and that is to have patience.

Sit back and do whatever guys do your age and she will txt when she can or when she is ready.

As for "Flaky" We all are flaky to a point, some more than others.

To be perfectly honest with you and I mean no disrespect at all, but you are blaming normal human behavior on a disorder that if you had not know about would chalk it off to she's prob busy, she'll txt later...

Because she has Bipolar it is not some excuse you have now to use as a "catch all" for behaviors that you do not like or do not understand. I would suggest that if you are friends w/ a "bonus" then maybe you should do a little reasearch on the basics of Bipolar to help you in the future as to what is normal behavior and what is not.

Again, please understand that there is no disrespect intended, just stating what I believe is the truth.

Patience my friend

Be safe and be well


Yes, people with Bipolar will go in phases that at times it is difficult to use the phone, txt, email, etc... I am fine, stable, answering you and have just ignored 3 calls not because I am Bipolar but because I just don't feel like it.

I hope this helps.