I don't know what to do anymore. I just don't....?!


Question:

I don't know what to do anymore. I just don't....?

My life is over... I don't care!! I don't really want to hurt myself or cause myself anymore pain, but I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO RELEASE MY FEELINGS IN A HEALTHY WAY!!

I just don't know what to do.

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1 week ago
I had a miscarriage today and I feel like there is nothing more to live for. I am 16! After I got home so things happened with my family.

I really have nothing left to live for anymore.


Answers:

"S" is nuts and doesn't understand the truma you are going through. Please accept my sincere sympathy in your great loss.

What you are experiencing, among other things, is Post-partum depression brought on by the sudden separation of the baby from your womb. I'll try and explain part of it. Your body was all settled in, hormones adjusted, and ready to carry the baby for 9 months. Suddenly it was ripped from you (through miscarriage) before time. Now you are throwing off those hormones and your body is struggling to balance the remaining ones. What you need is plenty of rest in a quiet place so you can grieve. Just don't let it take too long because that isn't good for your mental health.

Another baby won't replace the one you lost, but I do hope that, in due time, you can have another one.

I also hope that your family will stop fighting you over your pregnancy at such a young age and start to realize that what's done is done and cannot be changed. They need to drop the issue and try to help you recover. If you feel that you need help, please call your pastor, teacher, school counselor, or best friend and talk until you get relief.

My prayers are with you.




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