What can you do if youve had a very tough and hard life for most your life, and !


Question:

What can you do if youve had a very tough and hard life for most your life, and you get jealous and angry?

looking at other people living their lives, getting their needs met, being fullfilled?
plus if ive had it so bad and endured so much pain, trauma, victimization, bullying, abuse etc...does this put me in a catagory of my own and seperate me from everyone else, everyone around me? so it would be meaningless for someone to tell me, that somebody else had had a hard life to?
because my pain has been so servere and prolonged, it seperates me from the crowd, singles me out?

so it could stop me relating to people? im a 30 year old borderline personality disorder sufferer..throughout my life ive been , bullied, victimized, attacked/assaulted and injured, was sexually abused twice, once at 3 years old, second time at 7 years old, was bullied throughout high school, got admitted to a psychiatric hospital for 18months, been attacked in 1997, had my head split open..suffered mental abuse in the hospital..been attacked in the street by street gangs..will all this single me out from everyone

Additional Details

1 week ago
else and stop me living a normal life?

also i have dreams and ambitions i wanna reach
the big one of mainly emigration from the uk
to canada or the us, but i guess because of my past
ill be screwed to do that either..my dreams down the drain

ive also never made any friends in life, ever, and neither
have i ever had a girlfriend ever...im filled to the brim with
bitterness, anger and rage...jaw clenching rage..a fire that
wont go out...what does anyone think of all this? can there
be hope for me?


Answers:

Get into counseling and get your esteem back.




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