How do you treat a woman that has been emotionally abused?!
Question:
How do you treat a woman that has been emotionally abused?
She is scared to death to enter into a relationship. She does not know how to be physical, and i'm not just talking about sex. She says it is not because she doesn't want to. Even making out is a big deal. I want her to know that I'll be gentle and patient and I'll help her to take her time. This woman has a lot to offer but she is very fragile and you can tell she is tryign to open up. What are ways I can show her this the best?
Answers:
TAKE IT SLOW WITH HER AND BE PATIENT. EARN HER CONFIDENCE AND TRUST. LEND HER YOUR EARS AND SHOULDERS WHETHER OR NTO SHE NEEDS THEM. LET HER KNOW EVERY NOW AND THEN THAT SHE'S NEEDED, CARED ABOUT, AND BEUATIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. BE HER FRIEND NOT ONLY IN THE BEGINNING BUT, THROUGHOUT THE WHOLE TIME YOU BOTH KNOW EACH OTHER. MOST IMPORTANT, LIKE I SAID BEFORE, BE PATIENT WITH HER AND TAKE YOUR TIME WITH HER. DON'T RUSH INTO ANYTHING UNTIL SHE NOWS SHE'S READY TO GET INTO ANYTHING WITH YOU.