Self confidence?!
Question:
Self confidence?
i am to the point where i can't go outside because i am so self concious. it's terrible, i am constantly picking out the flaws in myself and really put myself down for it. is there anything i can do to improve myself and gain more confidence?
Answers:
I am no expert. So, I can only relate you what I know from experience. You used the right phrase: "SELF confidence". It is SELF and nothing from outside. So, if you understand it is just you yourself so is doubting...just go out and enjoy. Everyone has faults. Even Miss Universe like to change something on herself. Still, she is the best of the rest of the contestant. Talk to yourself:
- you are what you are... unique in every way and form.
- you are therefore interesting to someone not everyone
- some will like you (they have the ability to see the goodness of you) and some will not like you ( they are dumb in not seeing the goodness in you).
- enjoy yourself. Don't worry about what other people think of you.
I came from similar situation and thought of this way to get out of the rut. It works for me. Try it.