What can I do for him(please read details)?!
Question:
What can I do for him(please read details)?
My fiance lost a brother last July and as the first anniversary is fast approaching he is not handling it very well. He has been drinking alot, and his mood swings are brutal. It doesnt matter what I say he either gets sad or angry. Is there anyone that has been through this and can give me some advice. I tried suggesting going to talk to a counsellor about it but unfortunately he got a crappy one and refuses to go try again. Help!
Answers:
Tell him that you are there for him and that you will listen to anything he has to say. Sometimes that is all we can do. I know it is hard for you to deal with his emotions but he is having an even harder time dealing with them. Guy are programed from a very young age that they are not supposed to show emotion. I know it is hard but try talking to him about seeing a dr to get on meds.